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“Ganduje Optimistic: Tinubu’s Decisions Will Propel Nigeria Towards Progress and Prosperity”

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“Ganduje, the National Chairman of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC), expressed confidence that President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s initiatives would guide Nigeria towards advancement and wealth.

He conveyed this assurance during a gathering with officials from the Forum of APC Local Government Chairmen of Nigeria at the party’s national headquarters in Abuja.

Ganduje praised Tinubu’s leadership qualities, highlighting his bold decisions that, unlike previous administrations, are poised to propel the country toward prosperity and development. He emphasized the forthcoming positive impacts of Tinubu’s reforms, such as enhanced fuel production in refineries and the introduction of cost-effective CNG vehicles for transportation. Ganduje affirmed that Tinubu’s reforms will elevate Nigeria to a higher level.”

“ACHIEVE SUCCESS AND 700 WOMEN WILL CHASE YOU,” RENO OMOKRI ADVISES NIGERIAN MEN.

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In a new and recent development, popular nigerian controversial personality, reno omokri, has given advice to nigerian men.

taking to the x-platform, he advised men to prioritize their relationship with success. he expressed that if they ever had to choose between success and women, they should always choose success.

he also stated that after god and their parents, the next thing they should prioritize should be being successful. he explained that once a man has money and has established a very good, ambitious lifestyle for himself, he can have his pick of any woman he wants.

he used solomon as an example, revealing that before solomon became king, he had zero wives. however, when he became king, he had access to 700 wives. in his words, this is what he had to say,

“after god and your parents, you should prioritize your relationship with success. if you have a relationship with success, you can be picky over women. if you don’t have such a relationship, women will be picky over you. look at solomon.

“before he became king, he had zero wives. when he became king, he had 700 wives. i don’t support or oppose polygamy. this is just an illustration. don’t chase women.”

“achieve success, and 700 women will chase you. women do not chase men. men chase women. it is kings that women chase. be a king in your field and experience the solomonic effect.”

“Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) Inaugurates New Executive Members in Adamawa State”

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The Adamawa State chapter of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) has formally introduced its newly elected leadership.

The fresh executive team, set to serve for a five-year tenure, comprises Rev Joel Danjuma Manzo as Chairman, Rev Victor Saje as Vice Chairman, Rev Emeka Obionyo as Secretary, Rev Gambo Bupwada as Assistant Secretary, and Rev Malacy Wache as Treasurer.

The inauguration, held at St Monica Lutheran Church of Christ in Nigeria, LCCN, situated in Jimeta, Yola, also saw the induction of departmental heads. Barrister Victor Eze takes on the role of Director of Legal and Public Affairs, while Pastor Ishaku Shehu assumes the position of Director for State Issues and Welfare. Evangelist Haruna Donge is appointed as Director for Planning, Research, and Strategy, and David Simon Dzalla will serve as Director of Education, Women, and Youths.

Archbishop Daniel Okoh, the National President of CAN, represented by Prof Samson Fatokun, the National Secretary, expressed confidence in the abilities of the new executives and advised them to uphold fairness in their duties.

The Deputy Governor of Adamawa State, Professor Kaletapwa Farauta, represented by the State Commissioner of Women Affairs, Wunfe Anthony, emphasized the importance of religious leaders promoting peaceful coexistence. She assured governmental support for the success of the new CAN leadership.

In his inaugural address, the new State CAN Chairman, Rev Joel Manzo, urged all residents to prioritize peace. He pledged to build upon the achievements of the former CAN chairman, Bishop Stephen Mamza, who continues to serve as the Catholic Bishop of Yola.

DJ CUPPY REVEALS THE BIGGEST FLEX IN HER LIFE

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In a recent development, popular Nigerian DJ Florence Otedola, known by her stage name DJ Cuppy, took to the X-platform to reveal her biggest flex.

Sharing an adorable picture of herself and her mother, she captioned it, “arguing with your mom over who pays the lunch bill, a flex.”

Just a few hours ago, DJ Cuppy and her sister Temi Otedola melted hearts when they were pictured getting baptized in a video. Netizens reacted to seeing Cuppy embrace God after her failed relationships.

DJ Cuppy also recently shared that being a DJ is still her favorite thing to do. She expressed this a day ago, saying that out of everything she’s done in her life, being a DJ remains her favorite. However, she mentioned that she’s performing less these days because she has become more expensive and her booking rates are rising.

At the beginning of the year, DJ Cuppy announced her major plans for the new year, stating that she was going to be her healthiest, prettiest, softest, and most successful self.

MAYORKUN ADDRESSES ALLEGED ATTEMPT TO USE NIGERIAN INFLUENCER, NICKIE DABARBIE, FOR RITUAL

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Nigerian Afrobeats singer Adewale Mayowa Emmanuel, known as Mayorkun, has addressed allegations that he used female social media influencer Nicki Dabarbie for a ritual. On April 19, 2024, Dabarbie accused Mayorkun and his colleague, Skibii, of plotting to use her in a money ritual through a series of social media posts.

Mayorkun, who had remained silent until now, took to his X account to express frustration over the spread of false news about him and the reactions from the public. He emphasized that he had never met Nicki Dabarbie and was unaware of her existence until the accusations emerged.

He stated that the matter is currently in court as he will not allow the defamatory claim to go unchallenged due to its damaging impact on his reputation and career. Mayorkun reiterated that he had never met Dabarbie and would pursue legal action without demanding an apology from her.

He wrote, “Initially, I intended to keep this a court matter, but seeing the comments on blogs sharing these absurd allegations reminded me of how gullible people can be online, quickly spreading negative news without verification.

“For the record, I never met that person on the alleged day, have never seen her, and did not know of her existence until these allegations surfaced. Yet, she claimed I put ‘something’ in her drink.

“Many people believed this story, and you think I’ll let this libellous claim stand? No way!

“I want to reiterate, I have never seen this person before, even as I write this. I still haven’t laid eyes on her. What more can I say? How else can I prove this?

“I won’t ask for an apology where none will be given. I just needed to publicly address this and clear my name, because if it were a case of ‘cancellation’ as many are quick to do, I’d be back looking for a job in a bank.”

“How Tinubu Approved Payment of N3.3 Trillion Power Sector Debts: Adelabu Reveals”

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“President Tinubu Greenlights N3.3 Trillion Partial Payment for Power Sector Debts”

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has given the go-ahead for the partial payment of Nigeria’s staggering N3.3 trillion power sector debts, a move aimed at addressing longstanding financial challenges within the sector. Adebayo Adelabu, Nigeria’s Minister of Power, announced this development during the 8th Africa Energy Marketplace in Abuja on Thursday.

The breakdown of the approved payment plan reveals that the federal government’s N1.3 trillion debt to power-generating companies will be settled through a combination of cash injections and promissory notes. Additionally, approximately $1.3 billion (equivalent to N1.994 trillion at the current official exchange rate) owed to gas companies will be repaid via cash payments and future royalties.

Adelabu emphasized that the government has already initiated payments towards the N1.3 trillion debt owed to power-generating companies, with plans to address the remaining portion through promissory notes over the next two to five years. Furthermore, he highlighted the government’s commitment to addressing outstanding debts owed to gas suppliers, with a recent $120 million payment made in March as part of the $1.3 billion owed.

Despite these efforts to alleviate financial strains within the power sector, challenges persist, as evidenced by the recent approval of a 230% electricity tariff hike for band A customers by the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission. While the government later reduced the hike, reactions from various quarters, including the Nigeria Labour Congress and Trade Union Congress, indicate widespread opposition to the tariff adjustment.

The decision to address power sector debts reflects a concerted effort by the government to stabilize the sector and enhance electricity supply across the country. However, ongoing debates surrounding tariff adjustments underscore the complexity of balancing financial sustainability with consumer affordability in the quest for a more reliable and accessible power infrastructure.

“NCC Issues Warning Against Use of Pre-Registered SIM Cards to Safeguard National Security”

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Title: “NCC Cracks Down on Pre-Registered SIM Cards: Illicit Practice Sparks National Security Concerns”

The Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) has taken a firm stance against the illicit trade of pre-registered SIM cards, issuing a stark warning to Nigerians regarding the severe dangers associated with their purchase and use. Highlighting the gravity of the situation, the Commission emphasized that such actions are not only illegal but also pose significant threats to national security, potentially leading to imprisonment for offenders.

Pre-registered SIM cards, which are often sold through unauthorized channels, have been identified as a breeding ground for criminal activities, including identity theft, financial fraud, kidnapping, and armed robbery. The NCC underscored that individuals unwittingly using these SIM cards run the risk of being implicated in serious crimes, facing legal consequences as a result.

Furthermore, the NCC expressed concern over the adverse impact of pre-registered SIM cards on data accuracy and law enforcement efforts. By circumventing proper registration procedures, the reliability of consumer information is compromised, hindering authorities’ ability to track and apprehend criminals effectively. This undermines the integrity of telecommunications services and poses a significant challenge to maintaining public safety and order.

In light of these risks, the NCC’s message serves as both a cautionary tale and a call to action. By raising awareness about the perils associated with pre-registered SIM cards, the Commission aims to educate the public and foster compliance with legal regulations governing the telecommunications sector. Through concerted efforts to eradicate this illicit practice, the NCC seeks to safeguard national security and ensure the safety and well-being of all Nigerians.

COURT ORDERS EX-OYO PMS LEADER, AUXILIARY, INTO CUSTODY

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Mukaila Lamidi, also known as Auxiliary and a former chairman of the Park Management System in Oyo State, has been remanded at the Agodi Correctional Centre by an Iyaganku Chief Magistrates’ Court in Ibadan. Chief Magistrate Olabisi Ogunkanmi ordered the remand on Thursday, citing a lack of jurisdiction.

Auxiliary was recently apprehended by the Department of State Services (DSS) at his residence in the Olodo area of Ibadan. This arrest came months after the police had declared him wanted for his alleged involvement in multiple armed robberies, kidnappings, and murders. He was publicly presented on Thursday morning by the Oyo State Commissioner of Police, Hamzat Adebola.

During the presentation, Commissioner Adebola credited a cooperative effort with other security agencies for Auxiliary’s arrest and expressed gratitude to the public for their valuable information in combating crime.

Magistrate Ogunkanmi stated that Lamidi’s remand will continue until legal advice is received from the state Director of Public Prosecution. The case was adjourned until July 11 for further mention.

Lamidi faces a four-count charge, including conspiracy, causing death, and theft. CSP Funke Fawole, head of the Police Command’s Legal Department, informed the court that Lamidi and accomplices, who are still at large, allegedly committed these crimes at the Baba-Onilu Shopping Complex on Iwo Road, Ibadan. The charges include violations of Sections 383 and 316, punishable under Sections 319, 111, 390 (9), 324, and 516 of the Oyo State Criminal Code Laws of 2000.

Fawole detailed that on June 16, 2021, Lamidi and his accomplices allegedly caused the death of Azeez Rahman Abiodun, 36, by stabbing him in the chest. On the same day, they also allegedly conspired to steal assorted phones valued at N150 million from Azeez Hammed Adebayo.

Six months after the tragic incident, the killers of the Ogun State government’s finance director remain at large.

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Six months have passed since the tragic murder of Taiwo Oyekanmi, the Director of Finance for the Ogun State governor’s office, yet his killers remain at large. Oyekanmi was fatally shot on November 29, 2023, while returning from a bank where he had withdrawn a substantial sum of money for government use.

Reports indicate that five hooded gunmen hijacked the bullion van carrying the funds as it ascended the popular Kuto Bridge in Abeokuta. They opened fire on Oyekanmi, broke into the bullion van with sledgehammers, and made off with the money. Despite the Ogun State Government’s offer of a N50 million reward for information leading to the arrest of the perpetrators, no arrests have been made.

While the state Commissioner of Police, Abiodun Alamutu, previously stated that investigations were at an advanced stage, there have been no recent updates on the case. When contacted, the command’s spokesman, Omolola Odutola, failed to provide further information, suggesting that members of the public could assist the police by providing relevant information.

The lack of progress in apprehending Oyekanmi’s killers underscores the importance of community involvement in crime-solving efforts and the need for continued pressure on law enforcement to ensure justice for the victim and his family.

Mr. Segun Agboke, emphasized that ensuring a smooth election process is the responsibility of every Nigerian.

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Dr. Mutiu Agboke, the Resident Electoral Commissioner for Osun State, reiterated that ensuring the proper conduct of elections in Nigeria is the responsibility of every citizen. During a courtesy visit to the Vice Chancellor of Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Prof. Simeon Bamire, Agboke highlighted the importance of collaboration between the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) and academic institutions like OAU.

He commended the lecturers of OAU for their performance as INEC adhoc staff during the 2022 gubernatorial election and the 2023 general elections, emphasizing the need for further collaboration and out-of-the-box thinking to improve the electoral process. Agboke emphasized that achieving success in elections requires collective effort and innovative solutions.

In response, Prof. Bamire acknowledged the significance of INEC in Nigeria’s democratic process and expressed satisfaction with its achievements, despite challenges in the country. He assured Agboke of the university’s support and willingness to collaborate with INEC whenever needed, emphasizing the importance of working together to enhance the electoral process.

FG AND EFCC JOIN FORCES IN CRUSADE AGAINST FAKE NEWS IN NIGERIA

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The EFCC, alongside the Federal Government, is doubling down on its efforts to combat the proliferation of false information in Nigeria. This collaboration was emphasized during the official launch of the EFCC Radio, 97.3 FM, in Abuja, where Minister Mohammed Idris and EFCC Chairman Ola Olukoyede expressed their strong support.

Minister Idris praised the EFCC for its tireless work in addressing economic and financial crimes, stressing the agency’s undeniable impact in Nigeria. He specifically commended the establishment of the radio station as a vital tool in challenging misinformation and biased narratives regarding EFCC’s activities.

Assuring continued backing, Idris promised increased support and cooperation in the radio station’s operations and other initiatives by the commission.

Olukoyede reflected on the journey toward establishing the radio station, labeling its launch as a significant achievement. He condemned the spread of false information, recognizing its detrimental effects on the EFCC’s anti-corruption efforts, and emphasized the radio station’s role in disseminating accurate narratives.

Senator Emmanuel Udende reiterated corruption’s harmful effects on Nigeria’s progress, emphasizing its status as a major obstacle to national advancement.

Honourable Kayode Akinolu urged Nigerians to embrace EFCC Radio as their primary source of information, underscoring the importance of public awareness in the fight against corruption.

Governor Adeleke has rallied support for the rehabilitation of the collapsed amphitheater at Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU).

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Governor Ademola Adeleke expressed his devastation over the collapse of the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Amphitheatre roof. In a statement issued by his spokesperson, Olawale Rasheed, the governor conveyed his prayers for the quick recovery of the injured students and assured them of the state government’s support. Adeleke directed the Commissioner for Education to collaborate with the university authorities to provide necessary interventions to mitigate the impact on the affected individuals. He urged the people of the state to stand in solidarity with the institution and injured students, offering any available support, including blood donations if needed.

The governor emphasized his hope for the swift recovery of the injured students and expressed confidence that OAU would overcome this challenge and continue its pursuit of academic excellence.

The institution’s Vice Chancellor, Prof Simeon Bamire, confirmed that the injured students received prompt medical attention, and academic and administrative activities continue while the Amphitheatre remains closed for assessment and repair.

The Wildlife Bill has successfully passed its second reading in the House of Representatives.

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A significant step forward in addressing wildlife conservation and protection in Nigeria.

The Wildlife Trafficking and Habitat Destruction Bill has successfully passed its second reading in the House of Representatives during Thursday’s plenary session. Sponsored by Hon. Terseer Ugbor, representing Kwande/Ushongo Federal Constituency of Benue State, the bill aims to combat the rising threats of wildlife trade and trafficking by establishing a robust legislative framework.

Highlighting the urgency of addressing these challenges, Hon. Ugbor emphasized the need for the 10th National Assembly to confront issues such as illegal wildlife trade, habitat loss, and the decline of Nigeria’s unique wildlife populations. He stressed the importance of reviewing the existing legal framework to enhance law enforcement capabilities and impose strict penalties on poachers and traffickers.

The bill proposes measures to strengthen law enforcement agencies, empower investigators with broader authority, expedite wildlife cases, and recover assets related to illegal activities. It also aligns with international treaties, encourages global cooperation, and seeks to raise public awareness about the importance of wildlife conservation.

Recognizing the critical role of protecting endangered species, members of the House voiced their support for the bill, citing its alignment with international treaties and the need to safeguard Nigeria’s biodiversity.

Following deliberations, the Deputy Speaker of the House, Rt. Hon. Benjamin Kalu, passed the bill for a second reading after a vote. He referred it to the House Committee on Environment, tasking them to submit their report within two weeks for further consideration.

The Nigerian government has reassured citizens about the safety of the N20 trillion pension fund, alleviating concerns.

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The Nigerian government has assured the public of the safety and security of the country’s N20 trillion pension fund. Minister of Finance, Wale Edun, addressed concerns in a statement on Thursday, following criticisms from labor unions regarding potential tampering with the fund. Edun clarified that there are strict regulations governing the pension industry, ensuring the protection of workers’ savings. He emphasized that the government has no intention of exceeding these regulations and denied allegations of borrowing the pension fund for infrastructure development. Instead, there is an initiative to explore how these funds can be used within legal bounds to drive investment in key growth areas.

Age Gap Between You And Your Partner Will Decide How Long Your Relationship Will Last.

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According to a recent study, there is a correlation between relationship age gaps and the longevity of said relationship. The study by Andrew Frances and Hugo Mialon from Emory University, Atlanta surveyed 3000 married participants.

Their findings showed the larger the age gap, the greater the chance the relationship will end, and this likelihood goes up incrementally.

So a gap of five years age gap means a couple are 18 per cent more likely to break up than age equals. This goes up to 39 per cent with a 10 year age gap, and 95 per cent with a 20 year gap.

According to the research, the most successful age gap is apparently no more than a year, for which there’s only a three per cent chance of going your separate ways.

Guys! Here Are 15 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Date Or Marry A Single Mother.

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So are you considering dating or perhaps, getting married to a single mother?! an American author named Shawn James has this week wrote a controversial essay titled ‘Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers’ – giving 15 solid reasons why men should not date single mothers.

The essay has really caused a stir on Social media and we were thoughtful to share it with you guys.

WARNING: Single moms are at this point, warned that they’re not going to like the below essay. They should also note that the opinion was not written but was shared by the author of YBL.

1. Never Available. A single Mother’s schedule is never open.

Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.

2. YOU are NOT a priority.

Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind, her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.

3. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER.

A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life.

4. Emotionally Unavailable

Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children.

In addition to dedicating herself to her children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father. And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life.

So are you considering dating or perhaps, getting married to a single mother?! an American author named Shawn James has this week wrote a controversial essay titled ‘Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers’ – giving 15 solid reasons why men should not date single mothers.

The essay has really caused a stir on Social media and we were thoughtful to share it with you guys.

WARNING: Single moms are at this point, warned that they’re not going to like the below essay. They should also note that the opinion was not written but was shared by the author of YBL.

1. Never Available. A single Mother’s schedule is never open.

Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.

2. YOU are NOT a priority.

Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind, her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.

3. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER.

A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life.

4. Emotionally Unavailable

Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children.

In addition to dedicating herself to her children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father. And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life.

20 Harmless Things Guys Do That Turn Their Girlfriends Off

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Nigerian boyfriends can be as annoying as they can be sweet. However, some are just too insensitive to women and how they operate, reason and communicate. Normally, when a girl says no, she means “I’m not that cheap, try harder and I will say yes.”

Sometimes ladies, especially the under 25, just want their boyfriends to show them that they care beyond words.

When a boyfriend exhibits any of the signs below, they get turned off “that one is not a serious somebody,” they will say. Below are things that boyfriends do that girlfriends detest.

1. When you tell him to stop calling you because you are angry and he stays mute for weeks.

2. When you try to eat from his plates and he starts acting drama.

3. When you tell him you’re broke and instead of him to do ‘transfer’ he says “me too.”

4. When you’re having an argument and instead of letting you win, he starts throwing facts and logic your way.

5. When you tell him you like his watch and he doesn’t immediately give it to you.

6. When he ‘cums’ before you and then sleeps off leaving you hanging.

7. When he tells you your best friend has a bigger backside than you. Really?

8. When he won’t tell you his ATM pin.

9. When you tell him that you don’t want anything for Valentine’s day and he actually doesn’t buy you anything.

10. When something is bothering you and he can’t read your mind to know what’s wrong.

11. When you tell him “I’m fine” and he actually stops asking what’s wrong.

12. When you start forming vex and start leaving and he really allows you leave.

13. When he does not tell you ‘I love you’ every day.

14. When he says his mother’s jelloff rice is sweeter than your own.

15. When you send him a message and hours later he has still not replied. He better be dead.

16. When he doesn’t get you a gift for Independence day, Easter, Sallah, Children’s day, and his own birthday. What is now his use?

17. When it’s been one hour and he hasn’t checked up on you. What is his excuse?

18. When you’re meant to be the only woman in his life but he is still in contact with his mother and sisters.

19. When you want to make your hair and he wants to pay his school fees instead. Is that how to love?

20. When you’re ready for marriage and he is complaining that it’s just been six months. Adam married Eve the same day he met her!

16 Things Your Boyfriend Should Be Telling You

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1. I adore you. This isn’t about sex; this isn’t about desire. This is about how you make me glow whenever you walk into a room, glad that you just exist, whether I’m the guy beside you or just someone admiring you from twenty feet away.

2. You inspire me. I love how you’re living your life, what you’re devoting yourself to, how you’re spending your time, what path you’ve chosen, how you deal with the people around you.

3. I respect you. You’re the first person I think of when I want a serious opinion on something. Anything. From topics like “Am I being an asshole here?” to “Which is better, Mad Men or Breaking Bad?”

4. I just love kissing you. Okay, so, years from now, if by some awful paragliding accident we both end up paralyzed and have no use of our lower extremities and can never get it on again, I’ll still feel pretty good about it as long as I can just kiss you as much as I want.

5. I don’t want to change you. Yes, there are some things about you that I don’t get. That I don’t love. But you’re you. And all the other stuff that comes with you, I would never want to lose. So I don’t want to disturb the equation. I want to keep it intact. And just help it grow.

6. I accept your drama. Sure, you’ve got some anger issues with your mom. Or dad. Or sister. Or job that you’re trying to get out of. I can handle that, even when it’s a bit exhausting. I even support it. None of us is drama-free, me especially. I respect that you’re fighting against something.

7. I’ve totally got the hots for you. As in: Seriously, can we get these clothes off already? I’m dying here. We should really find our way to the nearest bedroom. Or kitchen. Or rooftop.

8. I love that you tell me off sometimes. Seriously. I may not always admit it, but I respect it. I’m full of bullshit sometimes, and I like to know you won’t take it. If I’m gonna have someone by my side, I better know she didn’t just fall for the first guy that came along, and she’ll keep holding me to my higher standards. I don’t want a pushover.

9. You’re on my mind. Constantly. Especially when I’m supposed to be thinking about something else. When I’m at work, giving a presentation, watching a movie with my buds. There you are, all in the middle of my shit, outta nowhere. And yet, I can’t help but smile.

10. You captivate me. You have my full attention. I’m not thinking about her. Or her. Or her. Just you. Oh, and that presentation I have this week. And my taxes that are due. But mostly just you.

11. I forgive you. The other day, you were completely crazy. Seriously, you went off the deep end about something. You blamed me for something I didn’t do, or didn’t actually say, or didn’t actually think. But hey, you’re human, you’re allowed a “gimme” now and then. (As am I.) And look, with all the beauty you bring to my life, I’m still coming out way ahead.

12. I love you. Sorry to get all heavy on you, but it’s true. While the last guy you dated for three years could never say it, I’m telling you now: I love you. You’re wonderful. I want to be more like you. I want others to be more like you. I want whatever kids we might hypothetically have together to be like you. You’re my idea of a fantastic person. I want to help you be as “you” as possible.

13. I can’t stop talking about you. You’re not some little secret I keep. Or hide. You’re my favorite thing on the planet. I told my mom about you before we even had our first date. I told my buddies about you immediately after our first date (didn’t wanna jinx it). You’re a story I could tell over and over and over again.

14. I see my future with you. Sure, I may not say this right away — I mean hopefully I won’t say this right away, for fear of scaring you off — but I’m thinking about it. We men, we can be planners, we can project, we can get ahead of ourselves. And me? I wanna get ahead of myself with you.

15. I just need to hold you. I may not always feel like having sex. I may not always feel like kissing. But I just need to be kinda near you. Be next to you. Be unable to lay away from you on the bed without wrapping myself around you. I don’t even understand it, frankly, but I do. So accept it, please. It’s something that something inside of me knows I need.

16. Thank you. For existing. For being you. For having your smile. For having the laugh that you do. For laughing at the things you do. For not laughing at the things you think are too stupid. For having a point of view and a strong sense of self. For wearing that amazing skirt the day I met you. For not wearing it when I introduced you to my mom. For having your standards. For getting pissed off when something matters. For showing your appreciation when you see beauty. For just existing. Seriously, I may never even get a chance with you, and if so, so be it. I’m just glad the universe made you. It makes me feel a lot better about the place I live in. But, barring that, come here please. I need to kiss you now. And for a while after that.

4 Silly Things Nigerian Men Say When Asking a Girl Out

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Some, if not most Nigerian men are guilty of using the silliest lines when trying to ask a girl out.

They’ve been accused of boasting about their wealth, jobs or travelling experiences to women because they think it’s the easiest way to scoring a relationship or a one night stand. Ladies, have you ever been in a situation where he went on and on about that trip to Dubai where he got to watch the Formula One championship and even took a selfie with Lewis Hamilton?

Well, here are four silly things Naija men say when trying to ask a girl out:

1.) “Baby, I can give you whatever you need”

Nigerian men are quick to use their wealth to seduce women. Boasting about how much they’re worth or have, gives them confidence to approach any woman/girl they find attractive. It’s silly but sometimes, it works!

2.) “Baby, I am the MD, DG, founder or creator of …”
Nigerian men sometimes believe telling a girl about their job position or description could win them a relationship or a one night stand. They think that when a girl knows they are employed or hold a top position in a company, it’s easier for them to respect, love and accept them almost immediately.

3.) “Baby, what type of phone should I get for you?”
Some Nigerian men think when a lady sees them with the latest or trending phones, it becomes easier asking them out on dates . Imagine a guy flaunting an iPhone 7 right now!!??

4.) “Baby, can I take you to Dubai for shopping?”
Nigerian men are used to talking about their travel experiences as a means to win a chick! They don’t mind boasting about where they’ve been to or what they experienced in the countries they’ve travelled to just because they want the ladies to know they’re also trendy or can afford luxurious trips should she agree to to date him.

6 Fat Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage…Lie No. 1 is Really Dangerous

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There are 6 lies in fact that are molding the minds of the young and old into thinking there is no hope for a happily ever after.

Lie #1: “My private immorality does not affect my marriage.”

This belief is a lot more common then you may think. Your addiction is impacting the happiness of your marriage.

Lie #2: “The mistake I made is so bad that we need to get a divorce to be happy.”

Building trust again after a s*xual sin was committed, addiction got out of hand or something of that nature can actually make your marriage happier than it ever was before.

Lie #3: “Breaking the covenants we made won’t hurt me or my children.”

Divorce does not fix everything, especially if there are children involved. There is no guarantee that your children will be okay with the separation. Knowing that their parents are not in love with each other anymore may possibly have an impact on how they view love, divorce and especially marriage.

Lie #4: “My wife and I are too different.”

I can’t think of one couple that is perfectly compatible. You have chosen to marry a flawed individual and are now complaining about it? Learning through counseling, trial and error, leaning on your faith, or taking marriage classes is the best way for you to learn how to work together when times are getting tough.

Lie #5: “My happiness is THE most important thing in my marriage.”

You will be happy in your marriage when you realize that you and your husband are on the same team and need to work together to get to the final destination.

Lie #6: “I should get a divorce if I don’t love him anymore.”

If you are religious, then one of the best ways to work through your marriage when the love is gone is to re-establish (or establish if you’re not religious) and understand God’s love. Learning the skills that He exhibits like patience, kindness, and a Christ like love can turn into an even greater love than you had before.

These are myths that we have believed for such a long time. Marriages have ended because of these exact lies and it has very likely affected you personally already. Don’t get warped into believing that marriage isn’t worth anything. It is worth every penny.