On September 15, 2024, Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh reflected on her decision to leave her ex-husband, Churchill Olakunle, during an Instagram exchange with a fan seeking advice.
The fan inquired, “Good morning, ma, please, ma. I have a question: how were you able to cope after your ex-husband left you with your child? If there’s any advice, I’m really ready to learn. I am a (nobody) aiming to be somebody soon.”
Dikeh responded, “Good morning. First and foremost, I was the one who chose to walk away from my marriage, not the other way around. I needed to escape a challenging situation, not just for my own sake but for my child’s as well. It was the best decision I ever made.”
She continued, “Remember, you have the power to become the person you aspire to be, as long as you commit to your growth and invest in yourself. Prioritize the well-being of your children while seeking guidance and strength from God. Sometimes the end of one road is the beginning of your blessings. However, if your marriage is worth fighting for, do so. Take care.”
Dikeh also offered words of encouragement to single mothers who may be struggling, stating, “Dear single mothers, I don’t have a manual for this. I am neither an expert nor a pro. My biggest teacher has been LOVE. I let God do His thing, and that is enough for me. Draw strength from God, and keep your family matters private.”
The actress, who went through a highly publicized and contentious divorce from Churchill Olakunle in 2017, has since publicly expressed forgiveness towards him three years later.