Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa recently shared a thought-provoking message on social media regarding the importance of discretion within female friendships. On October 9, 2024, she took to Instagram to highlight a common issue where personal information shared between friends is inadvertently disclosed to their partners.
In her video, Makinwa urged women to be mindful of the boundaries in their friendships, stating, “I’ve got something very important to say, but ladies, I’m going to eat you guys up on this video because it’s very important, so follow me as I go. My best friend contract is with you and I, not you plus your significant other. It breaks my heart to see many female friendships hit the rocks because of this mistake that a lot of us women make.”
She emphasized the necessity of protecting friends’ secrets and feelings, even from their own partners, to maintain trust and strengthen the bonds of friendship. Makinwa’s candid discussion sheds light on the often-overlooked dynamics in friendships and encourages women to prioritize loyalty and discretion.
Her message resonates with many, urging a reevaluation of how personal information is handled within friendships, ultimately aiming to foster healthier and more supportive relationships among women.