Nigerian singer Seun Kuti has ignited a lively discussion on social media with his recent comments about sex, emphasizing it as a mutual act rather than a favor. In an Instagram story posted on September 19, 2024, Kuti stated, “No one gives anyone sex except a prostitute. Sex is a mutual act. It’s not a favor… Nigerian women, sex isn’t a favor except you are a prostitute, and that also isn’t a bad thing.”
His statement drew a wide range of reactions, with many users engaging in a heated debate about the dynamics of sexual relationships in Nigeria. One commenter highlighted the need for Nigerian men to stop feeling entitled to sex after minimal interactions, urging them to respect women’s boundaries.
Another user criticized Kuti’s viewpoint from a religious perspective, asserting that “sex is only for married people; anything aside, that is a favor.” Some users called for a normalization of intimacy without commitment, while others addressed the double standards men often exhibit after intimate encounters.
Reactions varied, with many emphasizing the complexities of consent and respect in relationships. One user noted the tendency for men to demean women post-encounter, questioning how societal perceptions often devalue women after sexual interactions.
Overall, Kuti’s remarks have sparked an important conversation about sexual agency, entitlement, and societal attitudes toward sex in Nigeria.
