In a recent development, relationship coach Skuki peeshaun has countered Apostle Femi Lazarus’ statement on women not being able to control their emotions when they are on their period.
Recall that earlier today, Kemi Filani had reported that Apostle Femi Lazarus had revealed that a menstrual cramp should not be a reason for a woman to have mood swings.
He had noted how Esther and Deborah in the Bible had been able to accomplish a lot even while going through menstrual cramps. However, there were a lot of varying comments that met this statement as some women who go through hormonal changes reacted to this negatively.
Among the people who countered him is relationships coach Skuki peeshaun. He took to Instagram to reveal that it was normal for a woman to be dramatic.
He expressed that when a man is cranky or anxious, most times his anxiety is external and psychological. But when a woman is anxious, her anxiety can be external and psychological like a man’s, but she has the extra burden which is internal and biological.
He also further stated how a woman can go to bed very happy and wake up tense, short tempered for reasons she does not even know, while other times she can be overly happy and nurturing for no visible reasons.
He went on to reveal that while a lot of women are dramatic to the extreme, their biology should never be downplayed because it has a major impact on their mood. In his words, he had this to say.
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“When a man is crasky or anxious, his anxiety is 100% external and psychological (which means he is worried about an issue and it is working him up) But when a woman is anxious, her anxiety can be external and psychological like a man’s, but she now has an extra burden, which is that her anxiety level can also be INTERNAL AND BIOLOGICAL and this is caused by the hormonal variations women go through every 28days.
“A woman can go to bed very happy and wake up, tensed, short-tempered for reasons she doesn’t even know. Other times she can be overly happy and nuturing for no visible reason. Yes, it is true that many women are dramatic to the extreme, but we can not downplay the impact a woman’s biology has on her mood.. unannounced.”
“We have to let men know that it is normal for a woman to dramatic to a certain extent, when she displays this off-moods, he shouldn’t argue with her or talk her down, he simply needs to stand his ground and be firm.. but no scolding or arguing.
His assertiveness would calm her down again, Infact that is what she came for in the first place. His masculine firmness. If we go with this narrative, we would encourage men to snap back and nag whenever their woman is having this NORMAL-MOOD-SWINGS. And when a man responds that way, it adds to his woman’s anxiety. They’ll now be like 2 women arguing!”