Harrysong vows to expose individual who used witchcraft on him
Popular singer, Harrysong has made a bold declaration, vowing to uncover the identity of the individual who allegedly resorted to witchcraft against him.
This is coming following messy split from his estranged wife Alexer following series of leaked chat where Harrysong urged his wife to get an abortion for constantly birthing female children.
Taking to his Instagram story, Harrysong bemoaned being played by an unidentified person who forced themselves into his peaceful life.
According to him, this individual tore down his world with their charm and witchcraft.
The singer vowed to expose the person because the world deserves the truth.
In his words: “You played me, forced yourself into my peaceful, beautifully blessed world with your juju,charm and witchcrafty,only to tear it Down? Is that how much of a threat I am to your evil devilish kingdom? Jesus Christ. The world deserve to know the truth about you. I’ll expose you.”
Wizkid’s old tweet wishing Don Jazzy was his father surfaces online amid controversy
Amidst the ongoing social media storm surrounding the feud between Nigerian superstar Wizkidand music executive Don Jazzy,an old tweet resurfaces, revealing Wizkid’s wish for Don Jazzy to be his father.
The resurfaced tweet, dated November 03, 2009, features Wizkid expressing his admiration for Don Jazzy, the founder of Mavin Records.
In the tweet, Wizkid muses about the possibility of having Don Jazzy as his father, imagining how life would get better with the respected music mogul as his paternal figure.
“Imagine say Don Jazzy MoHits na my papa? I just dey imagine o. Lolz Kai life for better o. Lmao,” the tweet read.
Wizkid made subtle jabs at Don Jazzy, labeling the music executive as just an influencer, which led Don Jazzy to unfollow him on social media.
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Ijele masquerade image goes viral in behind-the-scenes of Mena Ajakpovi’s movie set
It was excitement on the set of the forthcoming movie, with working title, Ijele (The Good Bad Wife), following a rare appearance.
The movie is by the award-winning producer, Winifred Mena Ajakpovi, and the excitement was borne out of the live appearance of the real Ijele masquerade on set on one of the days of filming in Lagos. The Ijele came all the way from her hometown Igbariam in Anambra State.
The producer of 4-4-44 movie revealed that the masquerade leader agreed to release it to appear on set because of her background as the daughter to the former Onowu of Igbariam, which means the traditional Prime Minister of the town.
According to Ajakpovi, the Ijele masquerade, being the most glorious and biggest of all masquerades, would add rich cultural value to the movie
“Ijele signifies wealth, royalty and strength. So the story is culture rich and we used the Ijele because it is a story of wealth and strength,” she said.
She urged Nigerians to watch the movie when it’s released, adding it is also an opportunity for the people to see a real Ijele masquerade on a movie.
“The movie was adapted from a true story to reflect the Igbo culture. The culture sensitivity of the story line is relatable not only in Nigeria but across Africa,” she said.
Fans left concerned after Skales posted a video of his face covered in blood
Fans and followers of Nigerian singer Skales have been left in a state of worry and concern after he posted a video of his face covered in blood.
The singer took to Instagram on May 6, 2024, and posted a video dabbing his blood-stained face with tissue. The video showed that he had sustained injuries to his head, temple and bridge of his nose, which had gashes on them.
Although Skales did not provide details about the cause of his injuries, he expressed his gratitude in the post saying, “THANK YOU JESUS.”
The post led to a series of reactions from his followers and fellow celebrities who in turn expressed their concern in the comment section. Singer Nasboi said, “I am so sorry my brother 😢.” Nollywood actor Deyemi asked, “Accident? Sorry man”.
Big Brother Naija star Queen Mercy Atang commented, “Jesus Christ. What happened 😢,” while popular producer T-classic said, “Damn, I just hope this a makeup for a shoot.”
While some followers worried about the singer, others remained sceptical about Skales’ post and injuries.
A follower said, “First me I know say nothing fit do u because oil Dey ur head … The make up artist is dope! Special effects 👏👏 the fact say na tissue paper u hold na him give am out .. when is the video coming out?”
“If this was real, you’d be In the hospital right now. Stop fooling around, get in the studio and sing,” another follower said.
Another commenter said, “Bro I almost got tricked mehnnnn. 😂 I don enter your WhatsApp now now. 😂 you try shaaa 👏”
I can marry someone my parents don’t accept – Singer Nasboi
He states that his parents can only advise him, but his happiness comes first.
Singer Nasboi has revealed that he does not need his parents’ approval before marrying a woman he loves.
In a recent interview with Tacha on Cool FM, the singer explained why he would go ahead and marry someone even if his mother does not accept her. Starting from his family history, he stated that because of his parents’ inter-tribal marriage, they can only advise him.
Tacha probed, “Would you marry who your parents do not accept?”
“Yes, I would,” he said. “I think I’ve had this conversation before and they wanted to kill me. My mum is not a Yoruba woman. She’s from Warri and she’s a Christian. Meanwhile my dad is Yoruba and Muslim. You see it looks like something impossible right? Yet it happened.”
He continued, “So I always tell my mum that if she feels like she has trained me well enough she doesn’t have to worry about my decisions. She can only advice because at the end of the day, it is I who would live with the person I marry, not her. So if she’s giving me happiness allow me marry her. That’s how I think about it.”
He emphasised the need for open communication between parents and their children in the scenario where the parents don’t like their partners.
“I don’t think parents should be selective. They can advise, yes, they can see something they don’t like and tell me then I can find a way to straighten it out. Not that they’d say I should not marry her, because if I marry someone else who looks perfect to them, she may not be perfect for me,” said the singer.
“I’m sorry to say, but our parents would die at one point so I’m the one who’s going to continue with my happiness or sadness. So I’m of the opinion that if parents see what they don’t like in our partner, they should tell us. But selecting partners for us won’t go well,” he concluded.
5 projects affected by the Drake Vs Kendrick Lamar rap beef
When two globally famous rappers are at loggerheads, the ripple effects can be felt across the hip-hop community and beyond.
Kendrick Lamar’s guest appearance on ‘Like That’ off Metro Booming & Future’s joint album ‘We Don’t Trust You’ caused a stir as the 17 times took shots at Drake and J Cole over their “Big 3” claims on their collaboration ‘First Person Shooter’ with the formal being the main target.
The music world, especially on social media has followed with rapt attention the beef that has now entered its second month and produced 8 diss tracks since Kendrick Lamar too his shots on ‘Like That’.
In between this historic rap beef, several artists have released music that has gone under the radar. Some artists have been forced to push back their release till the Kendrick V Drake beef settles down.
On his X account, Audiomack’s Executive Vice President for Global Operations Brian Zisook shared that several releases scheduled for May 10 has now been pushed back indefinitely.
1. Ice Prince – Fire & Ice
Nigerian rap great Ice Prince Zamani was set to release his fourth solo album titled ‘Fire & Ice’ on May 3. He has since pushed back the album release to May 17 amidst the globally publicised beef between Drake and Kendrick.
2. Dua Lipa – Radical Optimism
On May 3, 2024, Dua Lipa released her new album ‘Radical Optimism’.
For a superstar of Dua Lipa’s standing, there has been minimal attention on her album as most music consumers are currently focused on the ongoing feud between Drake & Kendrick.
3. Ajebo Hustlers – Bad Boy Etiquette 102
Sensational Nigerian music duo Ajebo Hustlers released the second installment of their project Bad Boy Etiquette on May 3rd which was a day in between the release of Kendrick Lamar’s back-to-back diss records.
4. SIA – Reasonable Woman
While SIA isn’t the most talked about artist on social media, her latest album ‘Reasonable Woman’ released on May 3rd is set to suffer some marketing setbacks as it’s one of the collateral damages in the Drake Vs Kendrick rap beef.
5. Vibez INC album
Seyi Vibe’s new label VibezINC is set to release a joint 10-track project that has seen the release of one song daily since ‘Instagram’ dropped on April 30.
Vibez INC has seen its releases overshadowed by the Drake Vs Kendrick Lamar beef as not even Seyi Vibez’s presence was enough to capture listeners’ attention.
“Mercy is dark, very dark.”- Angela Okorie continues to expose Mercy Johnson
Angela Okorie, a prominent Nollywood actress, has continues dragging her colleague, Mercy Johnson, on her Instagram story, claiming that over 10 people have accused her of being a witch.
Okorie warns of the potential consequences and calls for prayers for Nollywood.
“Person wey everybody dey call witch una say wetin? Person wey over 10 people accuse of same thing na me Una wan attack. The thunder that will fire people talking nonsense is coming from heaven.
Only a fool says there’s no God!!
That same madness was returned to the owner. It’s spiritual things, canal people wouldn’t understand. Y’all keep saying it’s a lie, wait until it happens to you. Ndi ara, one thing I know about me is never giving up in telling the truth. Some of this people saying shit on social media can’t even cough when they see me in real life. So rest in Jesus name.
If I tell you some of your favs that wants to come out and talk, you will be shocked. Mercy is dark, very dark. Just pray for Nollywood, pray for us, pray for Nigeria. Pray against the killings of talented souls in the industry and pray for God to use more people to speak up so people can be liberated”.
“Adekunle Gold Stole My Girlfriend” – Lekan, Simi’s Alleged Ex-Boyfriend Cries Out in New Video
Lekan, a man who asserts to have been singer Simi’s ex-boyfriend, recently shared details about their previous relationship. This revelation follows Adekunle Gold’s public criticism of Samklef for his social media posts, where he warned against mentioning his wife’s name.
During a widely shared podcast, Lekan opened up about his long-distance relationship with Simi, which began before she traveled to the United States. He mentioned that they were together for around eight to nine months before Simi returned home. It was during this period that Adekunle Gold reportedly intervened and took Simi away from him.
The disclosure by Lekan sheds light on the romantic history between him and Simi, providing insight into their past connection. The involvement of Adekunle Gold in the situation adds a layer of complexity to the narrative, showcasing the dynamics of relationships in the public eye.
Watch the video below:
The anecdote triggered a flurry of comments, with majority blasting the man for bringing up past affairs.
lanremanuel wrote: “Honestly, this is bs. She’s somebody’s wife for christ sake. This lady minds her business, she doesn’t deserve all this disrespect.”
slimo0 wrote: “A grown man with beards in the mist of 3 women talking shit about another married woman. Damn, we’ve lost it man.”
samkul773 wrote: “Bro said he leave am 2 weeks straight to adekunle, u can tell the thing still dey pain small small.”
adedoyin_aduke_ wrote: “Where this one come from again??? Wetin Simi do una sef?”
One @vendorshome wrote: “I wonder what a grown man is doing in the midst of 3 women taking about another man’s wife. Only feminine men act this way because why???.”
adesope_shopsydoo wrote: “This is shameful.”
kayolulondon wrote: “Now I See Why Simi Have No Taste Imagine This Agbero Talking About Datting Simi The Dude Even Looking Drunk On The Show.”
lanremanuel wrote: “Honestly, this is bs. She’s somebody’s wife for christ sake. This lady minds her business, she doesn’t deserve all this disrespect.”
slimo0 wrote: “A grown man with beards in the mist of 3 women talking shit about another married woman. Damn, we’ve lost it man.”
samkul773 wrote: “Bro said he leave am 2 weeks straight to adekunle, u can tell the thing still dey pain small small.”
adedoyin_aduke_ wrote: “Where this one come from again??? Wetin Simi do una sef?”
An underwater railway may soon connect Africa and Europe by train
Travelling by rail between Europe and Africa could become a reality in the next decade.
This project is part of a broader trend of rail renaissance in Europe [Getty]
Spain is considering an ambitious underwater railway tunnel project to connect its territory with Morocco, a famous tourist destination.
Spain and Morocco, two countries separated by just 29 kilometres of the narrow Strait of Gibraltar, are popular tourist destinations for Europeans. Many travellers take advantage of the opportunity to combine a holiday in Spanish resorts with a visit to Moroccan cities such as Casablanca or Fez
Currently, the most frequently chosen means of transport on this route are plane and ship. However, if plans to build an underwater railway tunnel come to fruition, trains could become the preferred mode of transport on this route.
According to National Geographic, the idea of building a railway tunnel under the Strait of Gibraltar, connecting Europe with Africa, first appeared in 1979. The inspiration for this project was the Channel Tunnel, connecting Dover in Great Britain with Calais in France.
If plans to build a €6 billion tunnel come to fruition, the 27-kilometre underwater tunnel could connect Europe’s high-speed rail network with North Africa as early as 2030. However, this date is not accidental – in 2030, Spain, Portugal and Morocco will host FIFA World Cup.
The train journey between Madrid and Casablanca, currently taking around 5.5 hours, could become an attractive alternative to flights lasting almost two hours. The underwater tunnel would enable high-speed rail services, connecting existing Spanish railway lines with the Al Boraq route in Morocco, which opened in 2018, where trains run at 300 km/h.
The official investment costs are not yet known, but it is estimated that the construction of the underwater tunnel will cost over €6 billion. The Spanish government confirmed that the European Union will finance the project with €2.3 million.
This project is part of a broader trend of rail renaissance in Europe. More and more tourists are changing from planes and cars to trains, and the growing network of international connections and seasonal ticket promotions are making rail travel even more popular.
Trains, an ecological means of transport, play a key role in global efforts to slow climate change. In this situation, the underwater railway tunnel project between Spain and Morocco may become another step towards sustainable transport development.
Kendrick Lamar beats Drake to set new Spotify record in the United States
Kendrick Lamar‘s ‘Not Like Us’ has set a new Spotify record as the biggest single-day stream for a hip-hop song in the United States.
The beef between Drake and Kendrick Lamar reaches another milestone as Kendrick’s ‘Not Like Us’ records the biggest single-day stream for a hip-hop song on Spotify in the United States.
The single which was released on May 5th, 2024 as the last of four Drake diss records released by Kendrick Lamar garnered 6.593 million Spotify streams on its first day of release.
This record sees Kendrick Lamar’s ‘Not Like Us’ surpass Drake’s 2021 single ‘Girls Want Girls’ featuring LilBaby which held the previous record.
When taken in the context of the ongoing feud between both rappers, Kendrick’s record-making feat will be considered by some listeners to be a case of an insult to injury.
While there have been rumours of a feud between both rappers over the years, the feud took on a very dramatic and public turn when Kendrick dissed Drake while appearing as a guest artist on Metro Booming & Future’s ‘Like That’ off their collaboration album ‘We Don’t Trust You’.
While J Cole was the first person to reply to Kendrick Lamar on ‘7th Minute Drill’ off his surprise album ‘Might Delete Later’, the North Carolina rapper later made a U-Turn at his 2024 Dreamville concert where he publicly apologised to Kendrick Lamar for belittling his catalogue.
Drake would reply to Kendrick Lamar with ‘Push Up’ and ‘Taylor Made Freestyle’ before Kendrick responded with ‘Euphoria’ and ‘Meet The Grahams’.
So far, the feud has delivered 8 diss tracks across which both rappers have made disturbing allegations bordering on pedophilia and domestic abuse.
10 gift ideas that will make your mom smile this Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day is a special occasion to show appreciation and love for the incredible mothers in our lives.
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If you’re looking for heartfelt and thoughtful gift ideas to make this day memorable for your mom, here are some great options that combine traditional gifts with unique experiences:
1. Stylish handbags
A classy handbag can be a perfect gift for a mom who loves fashion. Choose one that matches her style and adds a touch of elegance to her everyday look. Whether she prefers shoulder bags, totes, or clutches, a new handbag is a practical and fashionable choice.
2. Elegant headgear
Consider buying her a beautiful piece of headgear, such as a fascinator or a traditional hat. If she enjoys African culture or fashion, an African print headwrap can be a stunning and culturally significant gift.
3. African print attire
An outfit made from African print can be both vibrant and meaningful. These garments are not only gorgeous but also celebrate cultural heritage. You could choose a ready-made outfit or buy some beautiful fabric and have a custom piece made just for her.
4. A new dress
Buying her a new dress is a classic and always appreciated gift. Whether it’s a sophisticated evening gown or a casual, breezy dress for the summer, find something that fits her unique style and makes her feel beautiful.
5. Dining out
Take her out to her favorite restaurant for a meal. This not only gives her a break from cooking but also provides a great opportunity for quality family time. Whether she loves fine dining, a specific cuisine, or a cozy café, make sure to choose a place that she loves.
6. Treat her to a full chicken
If your mom enjoys a good meal, consider buying her a full chicken to enjoy, either cooked at her favorite restaurant or home-cooked by you to give it a personal touch.
7. A day off from chores
Give her the gift of relaxation by taking over all the household duties for the day. Ensure that she doesn’t lift a finger to do any work, allowing her to truly relax and enjoy her special day.
8. Heartfelt compliments
Sometimes, the simplest gifts are the most touching. Tell her she’s the best and express your gratitude for all she does. A heartfelt letter, a poem, or a simple “I love you” can mean more than any material gift.
9. Give her grandchildren
Even if you don’t have children promise to give her grandchildren. You know our African mothers don’t joke about their grandchildren. This is a great day to tell your mother that you plan on getting married and bringing and giving her kids, at least make her happy for Mother’s Day.
10. Introduce her to your partner
If your African mother has been on your neck about marriage this is the best time to introduce them to your partner. Take your partner home and introduce them to your old woman, make her happy for Mother’s Day
These ideas can help you make Mother’s Day special and memorable for your mom. Whether it’s through a tangible gift, a personal experience, or simple acts of love and appreciation, the most important thing is to make her feel cherished and valued.
Ghana jollof is better than pizza, burgers and Nigeria jollof – Jeremie Frimpong
The Dutch-born player of Ghanaian descent also rated Ghana jollof above pizza, burgers, tacos, German kebab, pasta, ice cream and Chinese food.
He said this in a fun interview with Goal, where he was asked to keep mute until he saw a delicacy better than Ghana jollof.
Frimpong used to be linked with a possible nationality switch to Ghana despite rising through the ranks in the Netherlands.
The Manchester City academy graduate played for the Dutch at U19, U20 and U21 levels, before making his senior debut in a 2024 Euro qualifier against France last October.
Discussing his international future last year, the 23-year-old said he was happy to represent the Netherlands.
“It was nice to finally make my debut. It was against France as well, so it was a nice game. I was really happy about it,” he told Joy Sports.
Frimpong also admitted that he was approached by the technical handlers of the Black Stars over a nationality switch.
“Yes, the coach called me. I had a conversation with him but my mind was already made up,” he confirmed.
Asked if he occasionally watches Ghana’s games, the defender responded: “No, I just focus on the Netherlands.”
Frimpong, who was born to Ghanaian and Dutch parents in Amsterdam, helped Leverkusen to win the Bundesliga title this season.
How to avoid comparing new relationships to past ones
Starting a new relationship is exciting, but it can also bring up memories of old ones.
Avoid comparing new relationships to past ones
Comparing your new partner to someone from your past is easy, but it’s not always helpful. You need to enjoy your new relationship without letting your past relationships get in the way.
But why do these comparisons happen?
First, know that it’s normal to think about how things were with someone else before. It’s how our brains help us make sense of new things. But just because it’s normal doesn’t mean it’s good for us. When you compare, you might miss out on seeing all the good things about the person you’re with now.
Focus on the present
Your new relationship is happening now, not in the past. Try these ideas to help you stay in the moment:
Have fun with your new partner. Do things you both like. This helps build new, happy memories together.
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Have fun with your partner
Think about the good things in your new relationship. Maybe your new partner is kind, funny, or really listens to you. Focusing on these things can make you feel happier.
Talk about your feelings
If you’re feeling stuck on past relationships, talking can really help. Here’s how:
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Talk about your feelings
Talk to friends or family: Sometimes saying your feelings out loud to someone else can make them seem smaller and easier to handle.
Write It down: Writing about your feelings can clear your mind. You can see what’s really bothering you and then work on it.
Learn from the past
Your past relationships can teach you a lot. Here are some ways to learn without comparing:
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Think about what made you happy in your past relationships. Look for those things in your new relationship, but be open to new joys too.
Think about what went wrong before. Try not to do those things again. This is about learning, not blaming yourself or your new partner.
Enjoy what’s new
Every person is different. This means every relationship is different too. Enjoy finding out what makes your new relationship special. Maybe your new partner makes you laugh in a new way or likes an activity you’ve never tried before.
Build confidence
Sometimes we compare because we’re scared. Here are some tips to help you feel better about yourself:
Spend time doing activities you enjoy and are good at. This can make you feel stronger and happier.
Remember, no one is perfect. Be nice to yourself when you make mistakes. This helps you be nicer to others too.
Take it slow
Don’t rush. Getting to know someone new takes time. Here’s why taking it slow is good:
Learn about each other: The more time you spend together, the more you learn. You might find you like this person even more than you thought!
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Spend quality time together
Let feelings grow: Love and friendship grow slowly. Give them time to blossom.
Ask for help if you need it
If comparing is making you really sad or upset, it’s okay to ask for help. Talking to a counsellor can be very helpful. They can listen and give you advice on how to feel better.
Every new relationship is a chance for a fresh start. Be kind to yourself, take things slow, and ask for help if you need it. This way, you can enjoy your new relationship for all the wonderful things it has to offer.
7 relationship problems that are worse than cheating
Falling in love is easy, but making relationships work takes work.
Some relationship issues are worse than cheating
Even the strongest couples face challenges in their relationship. Disagreements, misunderstandings, and arguments are all part of the journey.
However, some problems can have a much more damaging effect on a relationship than a single misstep, like infidelity (cheating). These issues can slowly erode trust, create resentment, and eventually tear a couple apart.
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Lack of communication in a relationship can be damaging
Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. If you and your partner can’t talk openly and honestly about your feelings, needs, and concerns, problems will arise. Bottled-up emotions can lead to resentment, misunderstandings, and a sense of disconnection.
2. Emotional neglect
Relationships are about feeling loved, supported, and valued. If your partner is emotionally unavailable, distant, or simply doesn’t seem interested in connecting with you, it can be incredibly hurtful. Feeling emotionally neglected can leave you feeling lonely and unloved, even if you’re physically together.
3. Constant criticism and belittlement
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Constant criticism and belittlement put a strain on relationships
Imagine you’re excited to share your accomplishment with your partner, but they immediately shoot you down with a negative comment. Over time, this kind of constant criticism can be incredibly damaging. Feeling like you’re never good enough, or that your partner doesn’t respect you, can chip away at the foundation of your relationship.
4. Financial infidelity and dishonesty
Money can be a major source of stress in relationships. If your partner is hiding spending habits, running up debt without your knowledge, or refusing to discuss finances openly, it can create a huge wedge between you.
5. Controlling behaviour
A healthy relationship is built on trust and respect. If your partner tries to control your every move, who you see, or what you do, it’s a major red flag. This kind of controlling behaviour can be suffocating and can ultimately destroy your sense of self.
6. Unrealistic expectations
Nobody is perfect. If you go into a relationship expecting your partner to fulfil all your needs and desires, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
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Healthy relationships are about compromise
Healthy relationships are about compromise, understanding, and accepting your partner for who they truly are, flaws and all.
7. A lack of intimacy
Physical intimacy is an important part of many relationships. But intimacy goes beyond just sex. It’s about feeling close, connected, and emotionally safe with your partner. If your relationship lacks any form of intimacy, it can be difficult to feel truly bonded to your partner.
Amina, Ayinla, Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti, now Wole Soyinka – Nollywood enters biopic era
As the taste of the Nollywood audience expands, helped by the rise of streaming platforms distributing this content to the world, creators in the space have begun to explore more niche but important stories.
This year, two biopics on the Nigerian Nobel laureate, Wole Soyinka, will hit cinemas – The Man Died based on the author’s book of the same title in which Wale Ojo plays him, and Wole Soyinka, directed by Joshua Ojo with Adedimeji Lateef as Soyinka.
In the past three decades, Nollywood has earned its stripes as a formidable producer of cinema and TV content, but biopics about iconic cultural figures have not been its focus. Filmmakers have been inclined to pursue safer genres – epics, romcoms, comedies, and action thrillers – easier to produce and more likely to be box office hits.
But as the taste of the Nollywood audience expands, helped by the rise of streaming platforms distributing this content to the world, creators in the space have begun to explore more niche but important stories.
In large part, the biopic gold rush is happening because distributors have seen that, at the core, Nollywood audiences want to be entertained, making producers more comfortable investing in the genre. Ojo, the creator of Wole Soyinka, said he has long been attracted to biopics. After he made Efunsetan Aniwura, a 2020 biopic on the famous slave trader, he felt more comfortable convincing distributors about Wole Soyinka.
“To some extent, producers are scared to get a no from distributors that biopics don’t sell. But I’m glad everyone is now looking towards that direction,” he told Pulse Nigeria.
This move to make biopics comes at a time of heightened awareness of African storytelling and representation by Western media. The sequel to the classic Coming to America, Coming 2 America was met with backlash by Africans who argued that everything from the accent of the Africans to the portrayal of ethnic identities, and polygamy reeks of silly Western tropes about Africa.
“Africa is a hugely diverse place, impossible to stereotype; I couldn’t tell you what Zamunda is meant to be inspired by, because it doesn’t resemble any African nation I can think of,” the writer, Allegra Frank, decried of Coming 2 America in Slate magazine.
Aside from pride in the subject of these biopics, these stereotypes are some of the sources of irritation around the portrayal of Africa writ large in Hollywood that has compelled filmmakers to forgo breaking box office records for more movies with more serious subject matters. Some of these filmmakers want to tell the stories before Hollywood hijacks them, with promises of respect for the source material that it has consistently failed to deliver.
“Our culture is rich and beautiful and I salute those who have decided to wear the shoes and to tell our history. It is a difficult task, it is more expensive to make, take it or leave it. So I salute the few ones that are celebrating our rich culture,” Ojo said.
But this is not to say the Nollywood biopics released so far have been perfect. Amina came under heavy criticism from Northern women who said the film presented a false depiction of their experience.
“I was afraid that he [the director] would not do the movie justice when I saw these words on the screen before the movie even began, ‘At a time when women were subjugated…’ Come on! We are talking about a queen who ruled men and led them to war,” Furera Bagel, a lecturer at Bauchi State University said of Amina.
Funding for research and development remains a huge problem. But the budget for a Nollywood movie in 2019 has dramatically expanded just four years later.
Plus the filmmakers behind these biopics more or less have the blessings of the subjects or their families. According to Ojo, the plot of Wole Soyinka was narrated by the author himself. Ojo said he was particularly attracted to the life of Soyinka, who will be 90 this July, because of his contributions to African literature.
“Love him or hate him Prof Wole Soyinka deserves his flowers while he’s still alive and not when he’s no longer with us. Prof is a spiritual thinker operating within dramatic and poetic rhymes,” Ojo said.
Ojo added that the genre is perfect for educating the world about Africans and African stories.“Strangers will tell our stories if we don’t. It’s time we bring Nigerian history, culture, and heritage to the forefront of our consciousness.”
This tea has 9 wonderful benefits but not everybody can drink it
It will improve the functioning of the stomach and pancreas.
There are quite a lot of benefits from drinking nettle tea
The infusion of nettle tea has been used in folk medicine for centuries. You will be surprised at its properties.
Nettle tea is made from the dried leaves of this herb. Although we usually stay away from this stinging weed as much as possible, nettle has many positive properties and can be very beneficial to our health.
Its traditional use includes the treatment of hay fever and seasonal allergies – although there is no clear scientific confirmation of this use of nettle tea.
Doctors recommend drinking nettle tea because it will help with many other ailments and will protect and strengthen the body.
Nettle tea – health properties
This herbal infusion can be drunk in the evening, before going to bed, because it does not have a stimulating effect in any way.
There are quite a lot of benefits from drinking nettle tea regularly, and the most important ones include many properties. How does nettle affect the body?
1. It will help fight urinary tract infections
It has been proven that the use of nettle can reduce the symptoms of the disease. Nettle infusion can help flush bacteria from the urinary tract.
2. It will help with arthritis
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No one should drink nettle infusion like orange juice
In the past, nettle infusion was used as an analgesic and anti-inflammatory agent. It turns out that nettle tea can reduce and soothe inflammation in osteoarthritis.
3. It will make it easier to control your blood sugar levels
According to scientists, nettle tea has a beneficial effect on glycemic control, i.e. blood sugar levels. It affects the amount of insulin released by the pancreas.
4. It is rich in polyphenols
These specific antioxidants are exceptionally powerful and have been linked to reducing the risk of many serious diseases, including some types of cancer. Nettle extract has been shown to have an exceptionally good effect on breast and prostate cancer.
Antioxidants protect cells against free radicals and oxidative stress, which has also been linked to other chronic diseases, including heart disease.
5. It has a diuretic effect
Thanks to this, it will not only help deal with urinary tract infections, but also affects the proper functioning of the kidneys and helps people who struggle with swelling and water retention in the body.
6. Strengthens the body
It is perfect as a strengthening herb.
7. Improves the condition of hair, skin and nails
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Nettle has many positive properties and can be very beneficial to our health
Both nettle tea and cosmetics with this herb have a positive effect on the condition of the skin, hair and nails. All thanks to the content of vitamin B1, C, E, and K, as well as phosphorus, manganese, silicon and calcium. Nettle rinse will help cure dandruff.
8. It has antibacterial properties
Nettle has been appreciated for centuries for its many health-promoting properties. In folk medicine, its antibacterial properties were also often used as a natural antibiotic.
9. Relieves digestive problems
Nettle tea will help with common digestive and stomach ailments. It will improve the functioning of the liver, stomach and pancreas. It can be used for intestinal and gastritis and to relieve diarrhea.
Who can’t drink nettle tea?
No one should drink nettle infusion like orange juice, because the diuretic properties of this herb may result in deficiencies of valuable minerals and electrolytes.
It is not recommended to drink nettle tea by people suffering from reproductive organ diseases, chronic kidney diseases or after surgery.
Because nettle infusion affects insulin secretion, people with diabetes should consult a doctor.
How the shortest married couple in the world met and fell in love
Here’s the love story of the world’s shortest couple.
Shortest married couple in the world [Guinnessworldrecord]
Paulo Gabriel da Silva Barros and Katyucia Lie Hoshino are the shortest married couple in the world, according to Guinness World Records.
On November 3rd, 2016, a record was set in Itapeva, São Paulo, Brazil, with a combined height of 181.41 cm (71.42 inches). Paulo is a civil servant, and Katyucia is a beauty salon owner.
They met online in 2006 using Orkut, an obsolete social media platform. Paulo was charmed at first sight, but his feelings were not instantly reciprocated; in fact, Katyucia blocked him. However, Paulo did not give up, and he won her over.
Their internet connection developed into frequent texting for the next two years. They maintained a long-distance relationship, seeing each other every few months.
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Shortest married couple GWR]
When they eventually met in person in December 2008, their online love story became a reality. The spark was undeniable, and they began dating shortly. Katyucia left her birthplace of Londrina in January 2012 to join Paulo in Itapeva. They realised from the start that they were each other’s soulmates.
While their stature draws a lot of negative attention, they deal with it together. They find that being in a couple helps them deal with the public eye. Their story is a touching testament to the truth that love
Some recipes call for skinned tomatoes – don’t panic. You can do it yourself. Here’s how
You can skin tomatoes of any/all sizes and Firm, ripe tomatoes work best if you want to keep the seeds/retain the juices.
How to
Prepare the tomatoes by washing them. Then put the kettle on to boil.
While the water is boiling, make little crosses on the underside (the bottom – not the top where the stallk is) of the tomatoes.
Then put tomatoes in a bowl and pour boiling water to cover the tomatoes.
Leave them for a minute or two then test one to see if it is ready by pulling the edge of the skin .
When it is ready, drain the water off and leave to cool for a minute, before taking the skin off. Pinching one edge, peel back and do the same off the other edges. Best done over a bowl to catch whatever juices try to escape.
