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Reps move to investigate escape of Binance executive, deny bribe allegations

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Reps move to investigate escape of Binance executive, deny bribe allegations

The House of Representatives has launched an investigation into the escape of Nadeem Anjarwalla (Head of Binance Africa) from the custody of the National Security Adviser.

The resolution followed a motion of urgent public importance moved by Dennis Okafor on Wednesday during plenary.

It would be recalled that Mr Anjarwalla and Tigran Gambaryan were detained in Abuja before the former escaped out of custody and subsequently fled the country.

In the motion, Okafor said the escape of Anjarwalla from custody was an embarrassment to Nigeria.

He prayed the House to investigate the circumstances that led to the escape.

Meanwhile, the House also denied the alleged soliciting of bribes from some persons.

Kama Nkem Kanma raised a point of order on privilege, stating that the House cannot be embarrassed.

Although the lawmaker did not mention Binance, however, it would be recalled that the CEO of Binance, Richard Teng recently accused some members of the House of demanding bribes from them.

Teng, in a blog he posted on X on Tuesday, accused the House of Representatives Committee on Financial Crimes of demanding money during a probe.

Kanma said the House never made such a demand from Binance and called for strong action.

Ruling on the point of order, Speaker Tajudeen Abbas ordered the Clerk of the House, Yahaya Danzaria to use the media to refute the claim.

7 things men do when they don’t love you

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7 things men do when they don’t love you

In relationships, love is often shown through actions rather than words.

Men do these things when they don’t love you [anewmode]
Men do these things when they don’t love you

The absence of love can also be revealed in the way someone behaves. When a man doesn’t love you, his actions and choices can speak louder than any words.

It’s important to recognise these signs to understand where you stand in your relationship. Here, we will discuss seven common behaviours that might indicate a man’s lack of affection and commitment towards you, helping you see the bigger picture and make informed decisions about your relationship.

When a man doesn’t love you, one of the first signs is a drop in communication. He might not text or call as often as he used to, and when he does, his messages may be short and lack warmth. If you find that you are always the one initiating conversations and there’s little effort from his side to keep in touch, it could be a sign that his feelings have changed.

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A man who loves you will want to spend time with you

Another clear indicator is the lack of desire to spend quality time together. If he often makes excuses to avoid meeting up or is always too busy with other things, it might suggest that he’s not as invested in the relationship. A man in love will make time for his partner, no matter how busy his schedule is.

When a man is in love, he sees his partner in his future plans. If he avoids discussing or making future plans with you, it could be a warning sign. This can include anything from planning holidays together to talking about major life events. His reluctance to think about the future with you might indicate a lack of serious commitment.

A man who loves you will want to share aspects of his life with you — his thoughts, feelings, and daily experiences.

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A man who loves you will want to share aspects of his life with you

If he becomes secretive or shuts you out from important parts of his life, it might mean he doesn’t feel close or connected to you. This lack of openness can be a significant indicator of a lack of affection.

In a relationship, effort can show up in many ways, from small gestures like sending you your favourite flowers to bigger commitments like making changes to make you happy. If these efforts start to vanish, and he no longer tries to do things that please you or make you feel loved, this can be a sign that he’s not emotionally invested in the relationship anymore.

Support is a cornerstone of any loving relationship. If a man loves you, he’ll support your ambitions, listen to your problems, and stand by you in difficult times. If he seems indifferent to your needs and doesn’t offer support, it’s a strong indication that his feelings might not be as deep as you thought.

While excessive jealousy is unhealthy, a small amount can be a sign of love and protectiveness. If he shows no reaction when you mention other men or when you spend time with them, it might not necessarily mean he trusts you completely—it could also suggest he’s not concerned about losing you.

Understanding these behaviours can help you make sense of your relationship and decide how to move forward. It’s essential to talk to your partner about your concerns and feelings. Recognising these signs early can save you from further heartache and help you focus on relationships that are truly fulfilling and loving.

UNN convocation: 252 students bag first class

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UNN convocation: 252 students bag first class

A total number of 252 students have graduated with first class honour degrees from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, UNN.

This was made known by the Vice Chancellor of the University, Prof. Charles Igwe during a pre-convocation press briefing held at the main hall of the University’s Enugu campus.

He said, “I am pleased to announce that a total of 12, 526, which is an increase of 1082 compared to 51st convocation figure’s first degrees of the University of Nigeria, will be awarded at 52nd convocation.

“And the breakdown of the results are as follows, a total of 252 persons made first class honours degree, 4,834 made second class honours upper division, 5,883 made second class honours lower division, 747 made third class and 25 persons graduated with pass”.

Also, the vice chancellor stated that a total of 1,438 postgraduate degrees and diplomas of the University of Nigeria would be awarded during the convocation ceremony.

The breakdown of the postgraduate degrees and diplomas are as follows: a total of 412 persons will be awarded the Doctorate Degree, while 961 persons will be awarded the Masters degrees, as well as a total of 75 postgraduate diplomas.

Igwe further disclosed that a convocation lecture tagged “Why Universities Should Lead The Way to A New Nigeria”, would be delivered by the Governor of Imo State, His Excellency, Senator Hope Uzodinma on Thursday, May 9.

He used the opportunity to bring to limelight some of the achievements his administration has recorded in the past five years.

He reiterated his administration’s commitment to raising the bar of the university before he bows out in June 2024.

Igwe said, “We were here in October last year to flag off the activities of the 63rd Founders’ Day celebration and 51st convocation ceremony.

“On both occasions, I presented a comprehensive address in which I shared so many of the recent developments at the University of Nigeria.

“The address covered the recent progress we have made in the area of academic output, staff promotion, infrastructural development, new research grants and promotion etc. They formed part of what I described as the state of the campus address.

“A total of 12 of the projects have now been completed, while two new projects have been inaugurated. One of these new projects is the new building for the Department of Mass Communication, while the other is the much awaited senate building.

“I am particularly proud and happy about the new senate building, because it was almost ridiculous that our university was the only first generation university without a senate building.

“As a result, on assumption of office, I identified the senate building as one of my top priorities. Attracting and getting the approvals of TETFUND and the Federal Executive Council for the senate building was an uphill task, and this can be considered one of the biggest infrastructural achievements of the University of Nigeria in recent times.”

5 easy steps to make barbecue chicken wings better than restaurants

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5 easy steps to make barbecue chicken wings better than restaurants

Have you ever had barbecue chicken wings at a restaurant and wondered how you can make it at home? It turns out it’s pretty easy to make at home.

How to make bbq chicken wings [kitchenwings]
How to make bbq chicken wings

Barbecue chicken wings (BBQ) are juicy, tender, spicy and succulent. The secret is in the blend of spices, flour and honey BBQ sauce.

For the Wings

  • 1/2 kg of chicken wings (skin on)
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon red chilli powder (ground pepper)
  • 1/2 teaspoon black pepper (crushed)
  • 1 teaspoon grated ginger and garlic
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Barbeque Chicken wings [fry it]

For the coating

  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • 2 tablespoons of cornflour
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon red chilli powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon black pepper (crushed)
  • 1 teaspoon paprika

For the BBQ sauce

  • 1 cup barbecue sauce
  • 1/4 cup honey
  • 2 tablespoons of chilli sauce
  • Oil for frying
  1. Marinate the Wings: In a bowl, combine the chicken wings with salt, red chilli powder, black pepper, and a grated ginger-garlic mixture. Massage the spices well onto the wings and set aside to marinate for at least 30 minutes.
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Marinate the chicken wings [recipes]

2. Prepare the coating: In another bowl, whisk together the flour, cornflour, remaining spices, and herbs. This dry mixture will create a crispy crust for the wings.

3. Rub and Fry: Heat oil in a large pot or deep fryer to medium-high heat (around 350°F). Rub each marinated wing thoroughly in the flour mixture, making sure they are coated evenly. Carefully add the wings to the hot oil and fry for 10–12 minutes, or until golden brown and cooked through. Remove the wings and drain them on paper towels.

4. Make the BBQ Sauce: In a separate saucepan over low heat, combine the barbecue sauce, honey, and chilli sauce. Whisk for 3–4 minutes until well heated and slightly thickened.

5. Throw the crispy wings in the warm BBQ sauce, making sure they’re evenly coated in that delicious flavour.

Viola! You have made delicious chicken wings.

LGSC bars officers from appearing before assembly as Rivers political crisis worsens

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LGSC bars officers from appearing before assembly as Rivers political crisis worsens

The Rivers State Local Government Service Commission has barred officers from the 23 LG areas in the state from appearing before the Rivers State Assembly.

This was contained in a circular addressed to all heads of local government administration signed by the Director of Information and Communications of the commission, Ebirieneuket, Nteile.

According to the circular, any staff member who “disobeys or violates the instructions will be dismissed from service accordingly”.

The Rivers State Local Government Service Commission has barred officers from the 23 LG areas in the state from appearing before the Rivers State Assembly.

This was contained in a circular addressed to all heads of local government administration signed by the Director of Information and Communications of the commission, Ebirieneuket, Nteile.

According to the circular, any staff member who “disobeys or violates the instructions will be dismissed from service accordingly”.

The circular reads, “I am directed to inform you and all officers of the 23 Local Government Councils in Rivers State not to honour/appear before the Members of Assembly or any purported invitation by anybody or group of persons in any guise without the permission of the Acting Chairman- Local Government Service Commission”.

DAILY POST reports that the development may not be unconnected with the political crisis ravaging the state.

The political space in Rivers State has been in turmoil following the face-off between the state governor, Sim Fubara and his immediate predecessor, Nyesom Wike.

Recall that the State House of Assembly on April 22, passed the Rivers State Local Government (Amendment) Bill into law by overriding the assent of Fubara.

The House, led by its Speaker, Martin Amaewhule, made the decision at its 159th Legislative sitting held at the Assembly Quarters in Port Harcourt.

The All Progressives Congress, APC, Rivers State chapter on Tuesday directed the assembly members to immediately commence the proceedings for Fubara’s impeachment.

7 things a married man should never say to another woman

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7 things a married man should never say to another woman

As a married man, you have to be careful how you talk to others, especially other women.

Things a married man should never say to another woman [Woman'sDay]
Things a married man should never say to another woman

Being married can be great! You have a teammate, a best friend, and someone to share all life’s adventures with. But sometimes, things can get complicated.

Maybe you’re working late a lot, or you haven’t had a date night in forever. It’s natural to want to connect with other people, but when you’re married, there are some lines you shouldn’t cross, especially when it comes to what you say to other women.

So, what are some things a married man should keep to himself when talking to other women? Here are 7 things that are best left unsaid:

This one is a classic. It might feel good to vent to someone else, but complaining about your wife to another woman is a big no-no. If you’re having problems with your wife, talk to her! Sharing your feelings openly and honestly is the best way to work through any problems.

Even the most exciting relationships can have some quiet moments. Saying your marriage is boring is disrespectful to your wife and undermines all the good things you have together. Instead, focus on ways to add some spark back into your relationship. Plan a date night, try a new activity together, or simply reconnect by talking and spending quality time together.

Compliments are nice, but there’s a line. Telling another woman she’s “gorgeous” or “the prettiest woman in the room” when you’re married sends the wrong message.

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Things a married man should never say to another woman

Stick to compliments about work achievements or friendly things. Save the compliments for your wife. Tell her how beautiful she is, and make her feel special.

Even if you’re just venting, talking badly about your wife to another woman is a big no-no. It shows disrespect and can make you seem untrustworthy. If you need to vent, talk to a trusted friend (who isn’t your wife’s friend) or even a therapist.

Marriage takes work, but it’s also a lot of fun! If you’re feeling nostalgic about your single days, focus on the positive aspects of your marriage. Plan a date night with your wife, reminisce about happy memories, or simply remind yourself why you fell in love in the first place.

This one goes without saying. Flirting is a clear sign that you’re interested in someone romantically.

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Don’t flirt with other women as a married man

And when you’re married, that interest should be reserved for your wife. Even if you don’t mean anything by it, flirting can be hurtful and disrespectful. The same goes for suggestive jokes or comments. If you wouldn’t say it to your wife, it’s best to keep it to yourself.

This one is pretty obvious. Wishing you could spend more time with another woman is a big red flag. Your wife should be your priority. If you’re feeling disconnected or like you’re not spending enough quality time together, talk to your wife! Plan some activities you can both enjoy and make an effort to be present in your relationship.

Being married doesn’t mean you can’t talk to other women. But be mindful of your words and actions. A good rule of thumb: if you wouldn’t want your wife to hear you say it to another woman, then don’t say it! This applies to gossip, negative comments, or anything that could be hurtful or disrespectful.

The best way to avoid saying anything inappropriate is to focus on open and honest communication with your wife. If you’re feeling frustrated or need to talk about something, talk to her.

Nigerian govt orders registration of 1.9 million PoS operators

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Nigerian govt orders registration of 1.9 million PoS operators

The Nigerian Government through the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) has given Point of Sales (PoS) companies a two-month ultimatum, to register their agents, merchants, and individuals with the commission in line with legal requirements and the directives of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN).

This followed a meeting between Fintechs and the Registrar-General CAC, Hussaini Ishaq Magaji, in Abuja.

It is believed that there are over 1.9 million PoS terminals being used by merchants and individuals nationwide.

Speaking at the meeting, the CAC boss said the measure aims at safeguarding the businesses of Fintech’s customers and strengthening the economy.

He further stressed that the action was equally backed by Section 863, Subsection 1 of the Companies and Allied Matters Act, CAMA 2020 as well as the 2013 CBN guidelines on agent banking.

The CAC boss said the timeline for the registration, which will expire on July 7, 2024, was not targeted at any groups or individuals but genuinely aimed at providing protection for businesses.

A statement by the commission read, “The Corporate Affairs Commission and fintech companies in Nigeria, better known as PoS operators, have agreed to a two-month timeline to register their agents, merchants, and individuals with the CAC in line with legal requirements and the directives of the Central Bank of Nigeria.

“The agreement was reached today during a meeting between Fintechs and the Registrar-General, CAC, Hussaini Ishaq Magaji, in Abuja.”

This new directive came against the backdrop of frequent fraud incidents involving POS terminals and plans to stop trading in cryptocurrency or any virtual currency by the Central Bank of Nigeria. POS terminals accounted for 26.37 per cent of fraud incidents in 2023, according to a fraud report by the Nigeria Inter-Bank Settlement System Plc.

Last week, the CBN stopped major fintech firms like Kuda, Opay, PalmPay and Moniepoint from onboarding new customers and instructed the companies to warn their customers against trading in cryptocurrency or any virtual currency on their apps, threatening to block any accounts found engaging in such activities.

Nigerian govt confirms when Tinubu will return

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Nigerian govt confirms when Tinubu will return

The presidency has confirmed President Bola Tinubu will return to Nigeria from Europe on Wednesday.

Tinubu’s special adviser on information and strategy, Bayo Onanuga, revealed in a post on his X handle on Tuesday.

“President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, along with his aides, will return to Nigeria tomorrow from Europe,” Onanuga wrote.

On April 22, Tinubu left Abuja, the country’s capital, for the Netherlands on an official visit.

It’s false alarm, FG says no plan for foreign military base in Nigera
The presidential spokesperson, Ajuri Ngelale, stated that the president was visiting The Netherlands at the invitation of Prime Minister Mark Rutte.

After the engagements in the country, Tinubu travelled to Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, between April 28 and 29 to attend a special World Economic Forum meeting.

Jigawa govt establishes three new agencies

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Jigawa govt establishes three new agencies

The Jigawa State executive council has approved the establishment of three new agencies.

The Commissioner for Information, Youth Support and Culture, Sagir Musa Ahmad disclosed this to newsmen.

He said that resolution was reached at the state executive council meeting presided over by Governor Umar Namadi.

He explained that the council’s resolution follows the submission of Draft Bills on New Agencies which will be sent to the State House Assembly for passage into law.

He said the newly proposed Agencies for which the bills were drafted include, Jigawa State Information Technology and Digital Economy Agency, JISITDEA, and Jigawa State Residents Identity Management Agency, JISRIMA.

Others are Jigawa State Tsangaya Education Board, JISSEB, and Jigawa State Senior Secondary Schools Management Board

EFCC arrests BDC operators as naira hits 1,416/$

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EFCC arrests BDC operators as naira hits 1,416/$

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Operatives of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) picked up some Bureau De Change (BDC) operators at the Wuse Zone 4 market on Tuesday.

Traders claimed some BDC operators resisted the arrest during a sting operation.

The operatives had embarked on routine raids to sanitise the market of street traders and eliminate arbitrary trading.

But this move was resisted on Tuesday leading to gunshots and damage to the operative’s vehicles, two currency traders who witnessed the incident confirmed to Punch.

One of the traders who asked not to be named for fear of retribution said the traders simply acted out of frustration as the arrests were becoming too rampant and just to extort money from them.

He said, “EFCC guys came to raid and make an arrest on Monday and they came today (Tuesday) but today’s operation was too strong.

“This is the issue we are facing. Yesterday (Monday) they arrested traders but they were attacked back today and gunshots were fired because our people tried to resist the arrest. They were provoked and frustrated. They even broke the glasses of the EFCC vehicles today and that means people are getting tired and desperate.”

Another trader who confirmed the incident warned that a continued raid by the anti-corruption body might lead to killings.

The trader who also pleaded anonymity said, “If this thing continues like this, that means they would kill people because if they try to arrest next time, nobody would agree and another person would gather together so that nobody would be taken.

“That was happened today. People are now turning because all they do after arrest is to collect money from us. Nothing else is done. They are frustrating use.’

“I can’t imagine what it feels like for you” – May Edochie pens emotional note to Junior Pope’s wife on his posthumous birthday, shares his last messages

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“I can’t imagine what it feels like for you” – May Edochie pens emotional note to Junior Pope’s wife on his posthumous birthday, shares his last messages

May Edochie marks Junior Pope's posthumous birthday

May Edochie, the estranged wife of Nollywood actor Yul Edochie, has penned an emotional note to Jennifer Awele, the wife of late actor Junior Pope.

In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, the mother of four, who lost one of her children last year, stated that she can’t imagine what today feels like for her. She noted how posthumous birthdays could refresh all the sad memories and leave them stumped in thoughts.

She, however, admonished her to consider today as a heavenly birthday for him as he is celebrating with the stars. Sending her love and light, she urged her to be strong for her and the kids.

Sharing screenshots of Junior Pope’s last messages to his wife, she threw several questions at him, asking when he would send the next feeding money as she noted how he sent feeding money for March before his untimely death. She questioned when he would send her the footwear he had promised her, who we continue to praise his wife’s beauty now that he is gone and more.

May Edochie described his death as agonising partially because it could have been avoided; however, no one can question God.

“My dear @qutejay,
I can’t imagine what today feels like for you. Posthumous birthdays could refresh all the sad memories and leave one stumped in thoughts.

@qutejay Consider today a heavenly birthday for JP as he celebrates with the stars. I need you to be strong today for you and the kids. Sending you love and light.

JP! You sent feeding money for March; when will you send feeding money for April? What about May? June all the way to Dec? Slide 2.

JP! You said the footwear will be ready soon, when will they be delivered? Slide 3.

JP, you said she is beautifully created, and you always referred to her as the envy of all women; who will envy her now? Slide 4.

JP, how could they say you were no more the same day you sent money just before noon, 11:36, to be precise? Slide 5

JP, honestly, your exit is agonising, maybe cos it feels like it could have been avoided, but who are we to question God? He remains the Alpha and the Omega and the ONLY one that knows tomorrow. I wish you a happy posthumous birthday and pray that the Almighty gives your family and loved ones the strength to bear this irreplaceable loss.

@qutejay, now it all makes sense to me when I decided to airdrop all this stuff over the weekend without any reason.

Continue to RIP JP!”.

It is no longer news that Junior Pope and five others lost their lives after drowning at Anam River on April 10th, 2024.

Yesterday, May 7th, 2024, would have been the actor’s 44th birthday; unfortunately, death took him away.

Some of his colleagues, like Rita Edochie, Nosa Rex, Rachael Okonkwo and Stanley Nwoko, marked his posthumous birthday. Taking the lead, Rita, his godmother, noted how she could no longer celebrate his birthday with him physically. She stated that her heart once more felt shattered as she threw some questions at him, revealing that she takes solace in knowing that he is watching over them.

Nosa Rex, otherwise known as Baba Rex, noted how they would have been celebrating his birthday. However, since he hadn’t been laid to rest, he wished him a happy birthday.

Rachael Okonkwo expressed heartbreak over how she can no longer call him to wish him a happy birthday. She prayed for God to accept his soul and promised he would forever remain in her heart.

Stanley Nwoko noted how this was his first birthday without his family, fans and colleagues. He expressed how saddened his heart is that they can’t see him anymore as he noted how death took him away like a thief; however, he gives thanks to God.

Movie review: Aburo is a film with potential but marred by disjointed subplots

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Movie review: Aburo is a film with potential but marred by disjointed subplots

Movie review aburo

Directed by Yemi Filmboy Morafa, Aburo attempts to weave a poignant story of mentorship, redemption, aspiration and complex relationships. It’s about a former sportsman, Mide, seeking to divert a young street thief named Aburo (Maleek Sanni) from petty crime to the discipline of athletics.

On what I think about the movie, I’ll start with the romantic subplot between Mide (Efa Iwara) and Edak (Toni Tones). I thought I found it particularly underwhelming. Intended to charm with clever banter and emotional depth, the relationship instead feels superficial and predictable. The interactions, characterized by clichéd dialogue and sudden escalations in conflict, fail to establish a convincing emotional connection between the characters, further hampered by a noticeable lack of chemistry between the actors.

Though I liked the idea of a washed-up athlete trying to direct a young chap on the right path, however, I found it quite distracting when the movie progressed into a pack of subplots which included the lukewarm romance talked about above. The other subplots are familial strife, sporting rivalry, and underworld dealings, all of which should have received considerable attention. The absence of that leaves the movie with no narrative coherence.

Among the film’s redeeming qualities is the depiction of the bond between Aburo and his sister, which offers moments of genuine emotional resonance. Portrayed by Maleek Sanni and Darasimi Nadi, the siblings bring a heartfelt sincerity to their roles that stands out against the backdrop of less compelling storylines. The family tension, particularly with their aunt played by Wumi Toriola, provides a richer subplot that explores the cultural and personal repercussions of Aburo’s actions.

However, the film forces its characters into unrealistic decisions to propel its plot. Faced with his sister’s illness, Aburo inexplicably eschews potential help from his affluent mentor and a medical professional, choosing instead to engage in low-paying labour. This plot direction not only strains credulity but also overlooks more plausible scenarios that could leverage the existing skills and circumstances of the characters involved.

On the technical front, Aburo is marred by various production issues. Echoed audio, inconsistent transitions between scenes, and poorly integrated advertisements detract significantly from the cinematic experience. Errors in subtitles and the overall production quality reflect a need for more rigorous attention to detail in future projects.

Performance-wise, the film presents a mixed bag. While the younger actors deliver promising performances, the main adult cast appears constrained by the limitations of the script and direction. Wumi Toriola’s portrayal is a notable exception, providing a grounded and impactful presence that suggests a more effective use of her talents in future roles.

In conclusion, Aburo sets out to be a story of transformation and second chances but ultimately falls short due to its overambitious narrative and execution flaws. The film, dotted with moments of potential, fails to deliver a cohesive or compelling viewing experience, leaving audiences with a sense of what might have been rather than what is. The film struggles to get a 5/10 from me because I believe more should have been done to put the story where it ought to be.

Tinubu to officially open Funtua inland Dry Port in Katsina

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Tinubu to officially open Funtua inland Dry Port in Katsina

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Tinubu to officially open Funtua inland Dry Port in Katsina.

President Bola Tinubu is scheduled to officially open the Funtua Inland Dry Port located in Katsina State on May 9.

The Assistant Director of the Public Relations Unit at the Nigerian Shippers’ Council, NSC, Rebecca Adamu, disclosed this in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria, NAN, on Wednesday.

Adamu said the inauguration, scheduled to take place at the Funtua IDP Project Site in Katsina at 11:00 am, would include important stakeholders and distinguished guests.

She said, “Establishment of inland dry port will bring shipping and port services closer to the importers and exporters at the hinterland,

“It will decongest the seaports, create job opportunities, improve and accrue huge revenue to the government, among others.

“It is also in line with the performance bond signed by the Minister of Marine & Blue Economy, Adegboyega Oyetola.

“It is worthy to note that this initiative is part of NSC’ Key Performance Indicator (KPI), to deliver the Funtua Inland Dry Port Project before the end of the 1st Quarter, 2024, ’’she said.

 

He should free her and enjoy his wife” – Netizens react as May Edochie’s lawyer gives update on their divorce case following Yul’s lawyer absent in court

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He should free her and enjoy his wife” – Netizens react as May Edochie’s lawyer gives update on their divorce case following Yul’s lawyer absent in court

Yul Edochie's lawyer absent in court

The lawyer of May Edochie, the estranged wife of Nollywood actor and failed presidential aspirant Yul Edochie, has given an update on their divorce trial.

In a Facebook post, Emeka Ugwuonye of Due Process Advocates (DPA) Organisation, representing May Edochie, revealed that Yul’s lawyer was not in court on May 7, 2024, for the divorce proceedings.

It was gathered that the trial could not go on after Yul and Judy Austin’s lawyer wrote a letter to the court stating that he was unwell and would not be able to attend.

DPA Organisation revealed further that Yul was, however, present in court but without his lawyer, and a hearing could not be held as a result

Taking to social media, many noted how Yul still loves May, hence why he is playing tactics to avoid the divorce.

One Sonaldo 30 wrote, “Yul doesn’t have the money to pay lawyers

One Chinsy Ny wrote, “This guy should free this woman so he would continue to enjoy his wife na. Why the delay?

One Oyiza wrote, “You say you no want meat, say na bone fill am. Them say thrown am away, you say hold on, say small meat still dey the body. You don’t want her again; let her move on with life now. Why is he still dragging the divorce?

One Official Grade Ama wrote, “Yul free May, you made your choice with your full chest. Leave Queen May alone now!!

One King Minaj wrote, “Wetin concern us Oga lawyer? Here, resemble a court of law? Abi na only this case you dey handle?

One I Am B Model wrote, “You can’t eat your cake and have it; kindly divorce the woman since you don’t want her again. Make she move on with her life and know if she go find man for herself since you don find woman

One Nolly Critic wrote, “Why is he dragging the divorce? Shey, you are happy with your newfound love, sir?? Move on with her and let May go, na.

One Braids By Sandry wrote, “Never underestimate the strength of a quiet woman

One Mide Cup of Tee wrote, ‘Yul loves May, just that the forces that visited him is bigger than him”.

It is no longer news that Yul married his colleague, Judy, which led to his crashed marriage with his wife and the mother of his four kids, May Edochie.

Following his second marriage, May filed for divorce from him, demanding N100 million from Judy, and had also filed a restraining order denying him access to their former marital home and had gotten full custody of the kids.

In the last court update, May’s lawyer revealed that Yul and Judy Austin had admitted to adultery, and as such, there was nothing more than May had to prove in her case against them.

He revealed that the adultery charges that were levelled against them had already been admitted, which proves May’s case against them.

A report later emerged that Yul had expressed that he and Judy aren’t legally married and rather they have a relationship that is all about skit-making.

He also expressed that he shares two children with Judy Austin and drew parallels to Skitmaker Sabinus and other comedic actors.

5 things to say to your wife when she is mad

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5 things to say to your wife when she is mad

So many men struggle with how to engage with their wife’s emotions. Often, they fail to empathize because they were not taught how in their family growing up.

If you are someone who has deeply struggled with what to say to repair after fights, or with empathizing with your wife (or with everyone), this post is for you.

Here is a list of five things you can say to your wife to defuse and de-escalate conflict, as well as to show her that you love her.

If these feel foreign to you, that isn’t because they are “fake,” but because you are learning a new skill, and every new skill feels unnatural at first, from sports to work to communication. Let’s begin!

Here are the five things to say to your wife when she is mad:

1. “Our relationship is more important to me than this fight.”

As discussed here, the most important thing to say to your wife is that your relationship is more important than any fight. There are some exceptions to this, when a fight is about a key issue that defines the relationship, e.g. if you have discovered that your wife is cheating on you.

But in general, there should be very, very few issues that are more important to you than the relationship as a whole. If you struggle with thinking every little thing is important, read this.

2. “I love you.”

Verbalizing a vulnerable feeling may be difficult when you are upset, but it can immediately defuse conflict. If you do love your wife, there is no bad time to say it, especially if you are the avoidant partner.

Your wife likely feels emotionally abandoned by you if you are fighting, which can be hard to understand if you do not often feel this way. Read this to understand more.

3. “I don’t want to fight with you.”

You may think this is obvious, but it isn’t. It takes two people to fight, despite that more avoidant men think that it is only their preoccupied wife who “starts.” To learn more about the dynamic you are likely in, avoidant man and preoccupied women, listen to this and this.

4. “I’m sorry.”

Find something in the fight that you can deeply and genuinely apologize for. Certainly, not being empathic enough would be an easy one. Likely, you were dismissive or defensive as well. Remember, as discussed here, an apology will likely lead to more conversation, despite that you think it should be a conversation-ender.

This is a good thing, because it means your wife is feeling heard, and is willing to confide more about her feelings. She isn’t doing this to hurt or browbeat you, but to process what she felt.

5. “What can I do to make this better?”

This shows your wife that you are willing to change and grow. You are being open-minded and asking for feedback, which indicates a deep commitment to the relationship and to helping her feel better.

Openmindedness and willingness to get outside your comfort zone are key traits that are associated with happy marriages.

If you want to grow even more adept at communication, be sure to read this on how to resolve empathic ruptures (listen to a podcast about this that goes into depth about it here), this post on ten things women want to hear in general, and this podcast about which men have trouble empathizing with women.

Try some of these five suggested points in your next argument, and if they do not work, couples counseling can help you figure out what is still going wrong.

And till we meet again, I remain, The Blogapist Who Says, Moms, Help Your Sons Know This Stuff Automatically!

5 sneaky ways ‘I love you’ is used to manipulate others

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5 sneaky ways ‘I love you’ is used to manipulate others

Falling in love is one of life’s most beautiful experiences. And when someone tells you “I love you” for the first time, it’s easy to feel like you can let your guard down around that person.

But how can you tell if they’re truly being genuine or they’re trying to manipulate you?

Therapist Logan Cohen breaks down the five ways people might use the phrase “I love you” to manipulate others.

5 Secret Ways People Use ‘I Love You” As A Form Of Manipulation

1. Saying “I love you” before a request or when they know you will be upset.

When you were a child you likely pulled the “I love you” card to get what you wanted. You uttered this phrase to your parents in hopes of getting that extra slice of cake or quelling their anger for failing your math exam.

And like a child, this person may use “I love you” to get what they want out of you. So, if your partner says “I love you” right before a serious talk or when asking for something, they’re likely trying to manipulate your emotions, summarizes Cohen.

2. Saying they adore every single thing you’re interested in.

Meeting someone you have so much in common with is the greatest thing ever. And while talking, you might feel as if you’ve known this person all your life.

They like the things you like and adore the things you adore. But before you let your guard down, take a moment to question if they’re truly being authentic with you.

In reality, everyone is different and you won’t always like the things other people enjoy. So, if you see that you and another person have too much in common, to the point where they don’t seem to have any differences from you, then you’re being manipulated, explains Cohen.

3. Saying “I love you” in words, but without aligning actions.

Saying “I love you” is the easy part, but if their actions don’t align, they probably don’t care for you. Remember, our actions are a reflection of our state of mind.

And if their actions show they don’t care, then deep down inside you likely aren’t important to them. As Cohen puts it, “People might not always mean what they say, but always trust that people mean what they do.”

4. Over-focusing on sex as their only way of expressing love.

Connecting with your partner on a sexual level is great for your relationship. However, if they’re only using sex to express their love then they’re manipulating you.

Sex is just a puzzle of what makes someone fall for you. And if they can’t express their love in other meaningful ways, then is it even love?

5. Constantly talking about a future you haven’t agreed to.

During late-night phone calls with a potential partner, they might bring up the future with you. Talking about the future isn’t a red flag in itself. However, discussing it often too soon can be a form of manipulation.

“They’re trying to get you to fall in love with an illusion,” says Cohen. Be careful, as they may be trying to shift the focus away from one thing, to distract from potential red flags.Connecting with someone is wonderful, but it’s also important to not rush things. So, before you fall, take a step back and consider these five signs to see if this person you love truly loves you back.

Umahi following Tinubu’s blueprint – Kaduna Gov, Uba Sani

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Umahi following Tinubu’s blueprint – Kaduna Gov, Uba Sani

Governor Uba Sani of Kaduna State has said the actions of the Minister of Works, Dave Umahi show that he’s following the blueprint of President Bola Tinubu on development.

Sani said Umahi was working to ensure that every part of Nigeria tastes development irrespective of those who voted for him or not.

Speaking when he visited the minister in Abuja, the governor called for the
completion of Abuja-Kaduna-Kano road.

He said, “I commend the Hon. Minister of Works for his efforts.

“He has been able to follow the blueprint of our President who has promised everyone that he will take development to every part of Nigeria irrespective of those that voted for him or not.

“The Minister reiterated the commitment of President Bola Tinubu to completing the Abuja-Kaduna-Kano road.

“For us, it’s a very important road and history and posterity will be kind to him and President Asiwaju if the road is completed.”

‘You have no idea to share’ – Bwala attacks Peter Obi’s post on X

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‘You have no idea to share’ – Bwala attacks Peter Obi’s post on X

Former lawmaker, Senator Daniel Bwala, has alleged that Peter Obi, former presidential candidate of the Labour Party, LP, is full of misinformation and has no idea what to share.

Bwala, who earlier on Wednesday suggested that Nigerians needed to adjust to the current harsh economic realities in the country, said Obi’s governance record shows only rhetoric, falsehood and misinformation.

The former lawmaker stated this on Wednesday while commenting on a post made by Obi about his speech at a joint session of students at two Universities in the United Kingdom, Cambridge University and Anglia Ruskin University.

Former lawmaker, Senator Daniel Bwala, has alleged that Peter Obi, former presidential candidate of the Labour Party, LP, is full of misinformation and has no idea what to share.

Bwala, who earlier on Wednesday suggested that Nigerians needed to adjust to the current harsh economic realities in the country, said Obi’s governance record shows only rhetoric, falsehood and misinformation.

The former lawmaker stated this on Wednesday while commenting on a post made by Obi about his speech at a joint session of students at two Universities in the United Kingdom, Cambridge University and Anglia Ruskin University.

The presidential candidate had stated that he shared ideas on “African Leadership’s Role in Fostering Global Citizenship and Social Responsibility” at the two universities.

However, Bwala claimed Obi had no idea to share, alleging he misled churches during the last general elections.

He said: “But you know you don’t have any idea to share now. Your governance record shows only rhetoric, falsehood and misinformation. Nothing excites you more than causing division, hatred and bigotry. Even the churches you misled during the elections and after you lost the election you abandoned have now known who you are, have abandoned you and have moved on. Do you want me to count them?”

 

Should I get back with my ex after he cheated? 5 questions to ask yourself before getting back together

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Should I get back with my ex after he cheated? 5 questions to ask yourself before getting back together

The man isn't sure whether to tell his friend's partner (stock photo) (Image: Getty Images/iStockphoto)
The man isn’t sure whether to tell his friend’s partner

You went through the breakup, worked on moving on, and, suddenly, your ex comes back wanting a second chance at a relationship with you. You find yourself wondering: “Should I get back with my ex?” In my practice, I’ve seen everything in terms of love, relationships, breakups, and infidelity. Only one detail is a constant: When it comes to breaking up as a result of cheating, it’s hard to forgive and forget, much less apologize.

Sometimes, the relationship is solid enough and the infidelity forgivable — and the couple prevails. Other times, it’s just a symptom of a crumbling union. So how can you tell? Is getting back with an ex the right thing to do? Is a healthy relationship possible? If you’re thinking about whether your ex has changed their ways enough to consider getting back together, here are 5 important questions to ask yourself.

Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before getting back together:

1. What has your ex been doing for the last year?

More than likely, if they’ve truly changed their ways, the change is consistent for at least 12 months. Six months? Nope. It takes at least 12 months for someone to truly change in their life. Have they kept a job for 12 months? Have they stayed off drugs or alcohol for 12 months? Have they stopped seeing their old flame for 12 months? Real change takes commitment and time.

2. Where are they in the process of remorse?

Someone who’s truly remorseful actually asks you to forgive them for their jerk-hood period. But that’s only the beginning when making the decision to get back together. Remorse shows in the actions of the individual. If their fault was a lack of contributing financially to the relationship (ie. didn’t have a job, didn’t help with the rent or utilities, etc.), then remorse might mean that they show respect and consideration for your financial obligations by making sure they carry their own weight without needing you to remind them.

3. Have they changed their environment?

If someone really wants to alter their life, certain things have to change. People in 12-step programs know this all too well. Even if you’re going to AA or NA daily, your social circle, both in person and online, can sabotage your efforts. Transitioning into a new lifestyle means you need people who support your efforts (sponsors), or friends if you’re not in recovery. But you also need to move as far away from toxic people or temptations as possible.

This might mean just renting a room in a home where people support one’s change or restricting or “unfriending” certain people from their social networks. It could even mean getting a new job. I know of professional men who left circles of golf and 18-year-old scotch to start anew working at a department store with a life of picnics, tag football, and soda. When you want to change, your environment needs to change. Have they put distance between themselves and temptation?

4. Is their approach to the relationship different this time?

I’ve heard it said that our whole bodies completely reproduce all cells in seven years. That means that in seven years, you’re a completely new person. Has your ex acknowledged the growth and changes you’ve both made in your lives, particularly since the game-changing betrayal occurred? Do they understand that they need to change their approach because the playing field has changed? We want different things in a relationship after going through and recovering from infidelity. Are they willing to walk this walk with you?

When did it become taboo to ask what someone’s intentions are? A real man — a gentleman — knows what he wants. A lady always knows. So go ahead and ask What do they want? What do they expect from the relationship? See if they’re honest and if their goals match yours, it’s not a bad thing to answer with honesty. After all, honesty is an important aspect of healthy relationships.

If they say, “I want another chance to get to know you and improve our relationship”, that’s a fair response. And if you want commitment, fidelity, a future engagement, or marriage, don’t shy away from asking! You’re giving this person a second chance. Make your expectations clear. They say “Forgiveness is divine” but I’ve also heard it said that “Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.” So, if you’re thinking about getting back with an ex, you need to really examine yourself, ask these questions, and don’t get caught up in the heartbreak and loneliness of the breakup.

Nigeria’s education system facing challenges of retaining students – UNICEF

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Nigeria’s education system facing challenges of retaining students – UNICEF

The United Nations Children’s Fund, UNICEF, has said the education system in Nigeria faces challenges in retention, transition and completion by students –particularly in the North East and North West regions of the country.

Speaking during a two-day regional stakeholder meeting on out-of-school children and retention, transition and completion models in Bauchi, Gombe and Adamawa states, UNICEF’s Bauchi Chief of Field Office, Tushar Rane, said the situation has become worse compared with 10 years ago.

According to him, over the past decade, the situation has worsened, with a significant number of primary and junior secondary school-age children out of school, totalling 10.2 million and 8.1 million respectively, a situation which places Nigeria at the forefront of global challenges in education.

The United Nations Children’s Fund, UNICEF, has said the education system in Nigeria faces challenges in retention, transition and completion by students –particularly in the North East and North West regions of the country.

Speaking during a two-day regional stakeholder meeting on out-of-school children and retention, transition and completion models in Bauchi, Gombe and Adamawa states, UNICEF’s Bauchi Chief of Field Office, Tushar Rane, said the situation has become worse compared with 10 years ago.

According to him, over the past decade, the situation has worsened, with a significant number of primary and junior secondary school-age children out of school, totalling 10.2 million and 8.1 million respectively, a situation which places Nigeria at the forefront of global challenges in education.

“Only 63 percent of primary school-age children regularly attend school. According to the Multiple Indicator Cluster Survey 2021, only 84 percent of children effectively transition to junior secondary education after primary school completion. Less than 50 percent – about 2.4 million – of the 5.9 million children who commence Primary Grade 1 annually in Nigeria persist to the conclusion of Junior Secondary Grade 3,” he said.

In his address, Yawoji Ahmed Bala, a director from Gombe State Universal Basic Education Board, cited factors like early marriage, peer pressure, and social norms as contributing to the high number of out-of-school children.

DAILY POST reports that the stakeholders’ meeting aimed to garner collective commitment towards developing and implementing strategies to reduce the number of out-of-school children and improve retention, transition, and completion rates, particularly for adolescent girls and boys in secondary education.

The meeting, attended by commissioners of education from the states and executive secretaries of state SUBEBs, emphasised the urgent need for concerted efforts to address the challenges in Nigeria’s education landscape.

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