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When dating, it’s easy to lose sight of your individuality while trying to nurture a relationship. Here are five important reminders for women to maintain their independence until there’s a commitment:
- PURPOSE YOUR CAREER AND EDUCATION
Never sacrifice your career or educational goals for a relationship. If an opportunity arises—whether it’s studying abroad or a job in another city—take it. Someone who truly cares for you will support your aspirations, not hold you back. - AVOID MOVING IN TOGETHER
Living with a partner before marriage can blur boundaries. While short visits are fine, don’t take on household responsibilities like cooking and cleaning for him. Remember, if you act like a wife without the commitment, he may not feel the urgency to marry. - DON’T SHARE YOUR SAVINGS
While gifts are thoughtful, avoid giving him significant sums of money or using your life savings to fund his dreams. Ensure that your financial stability isn’t jeopardized, regardless of how persuasive his reasons might be. - MAINTAIN YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
Your friends are essential to your well-being. Don’t let your relationship isolate you from your social circle. Make time for the people who care about you and support your growth outside of the relationship. - BE CAUTIOUS ABOUT PREGNANCY
Avoid unprotected sex unless you’re committed to a long-term partnership. Don’t think of having a child as a way to solidify the relationship. Parenthood is a serious commitment that requires mutual dedication.
These reminders can help you keep your boundaries intact until you receive the commitment you deserve. Prioritizing yourself ensures that any relationship you enter is built on mutual respect and shared goals.